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Is my partner simply too busy and unstable?

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    Have been involved with a woman… divorced Mother to 2 kids for almost 2 years. There have definitely been some signs of narcissist patterns… Went through a brutal discard phase a year ago, but hung it out because she was very inexperienced with relationships and thought we could work it out. The past 3 weeks she has not initiated hardly any of the communication. She truly is extremely busy with the kids and her demanding job, but the lack of communication is disturbing and I have mentioned it to her. She immediately owned up to the issue and said she would do better
    . Thus far, I have not seen it.. we have a good time when we are together… But lately there seems to be a communication blackout… Is this just a case of someone being too busy? She seems to be responsive when I initiate communication but I am tired of being the only one supporting the relationship… How do I get out of this confusion and take steps to take better care of myself? If she is trying to send a message that she no longer cares for me, then why do we have a great time together on weekends? Note that I am hesitant to talk with her about this… Uggh… Because of previous negative reactions.. silent treatment and word salad… Very weird word salad… That she is so engaged with all her friends and life itself… And yes.. I am somewhere included in all this… Anyway.. is this person just confused and unstable? Or do they have a serious disorder?

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