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Reply To: Indifference to a Narcissist

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Equanimity, you sound very strong and determined, and I hope this can inspire others here who are still addicted or in shock. I just read an article today on the 7 ways narcissists try to get back together with you. They tricks they use are very seductive, but they are just tricks as you have already gathered. Stay strong. The best thing you can do now is to really connect with your self and get to know yourself well. The more you see your own patterns and vulnerabilities, the more empowered you will feel, and the less likely you will be to attract someone like this again.

I am constantly peeling back memories of my childhood and connecting them to my choices of friends and partners. It’s astounding to make these connections. I cannot stress enough to really take the time for this type of inner work. This site is a wonderful resource, and I have so much gratitude to be a part of it.