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Reply To: New to the Site; Obsessed with Him

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jaybird
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I am trying to get free from a 7 year relationship. I’ve been “no contact” for 2 days, but I still can’t stop thinking about him. To support no contact, I’ve been cell phone free and facebook free from 43 days. It has helped. What has helped the most though was educating myself by mostly reading and re-reading books. A couple I recommend are Psychopath Free and Exorcism/Purging the Narcissist from your Heart and Soul. I know it is very hard. I keep thinking about him then I remind myself of what all he has done and still I took him back. No more! I can’t live the rest of my life this way. I hope you will get there too.