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What do you mean you deserve better? You gave in to him. You got into bed with him. You’re his toy, and deserve to be his toy until you prove otherwise. And you want to be. You are relieved when he contacts you because you enjoy it.
The problem here has nothing to do with him — I’m not even sure I should characterize it as a problem. It’s all you, sweetheart. He is having a good time, and you’re fretting over nothing. Either keep enjoying being his side lay, or move on and find someone you can have to yourself.