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My opinion is that a man’s children belong to him. And any woman trying to keep a child from their rightful owner is awful.
But that isn’t very useful to you. If I were in your position I’d cut him out as much as possible. But you can’t just choose that. A court has to rule. Turn his tactics back on him. If he is a narcissist, finding evidence of neglect shouldn’t be hard. This may mean giving him additional time with her at first. But by exposing her to poor treatment now, you may save her a lifetime, or at least 18 years, of contact with him. The family court strongly favors women — use it to your advantage.
Document “proof” of his character… paint him as abusive and neglectful.