Reply To: Hi – I'm a sociopath.
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Why do you people keep talking about “love”? You give some chemical reaction inside your brain some mysterious name and power… Psychopaths naturally have less dopamine inside their brain (about 10 times). There are a lot of studies about reasons behind that. But it doesn’t change the fact. So naturally they are trying to increase it. So this is why most of the times you have this pattern “Idealize -> devalue -> discard”. They see new toy, dopamine level increases (Idealize), then level rapidly decreasing, sociopath goes angry, he doesn’t know what’s going on, so he blames “victim” (devalue), and final stage, they think that they have to “punish” victim, for that she has done (discard). What is happening to you anoli, you are playing his game with him, so his dopamine levels stays increased. So he goes along with you. But probably you will never ever gonna be able to have stable relationship with him. Are you ready for that? Because believe me, things can get really violent…