Hello and sorry you have been targeted like this. If you can, I recommend reading anything by H G Tudor. The best one I have read so far is 50 Things You Should Never Do With a Narcissist, or Evil, or Fuel. You can read some of them for free if you have Amazon Prime. It breaks it down from the standpoint of a Narcissistic Sociopath. It is VERY ACCURATE! Make notes of all the awful ways he made you feel, read the book, and go NO CONTACT, would be my recommendation. GOOD LUCK!