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Crybaby, It’s all about reparenting, supplying the missing links you had growing up. Once you know who you are and what you want, being with a good guy without the drama will be possible. I won’t lie, it’s insanely hard work. With borderline issues, you might want to check out someone who does DBT. Dialectical Behavior Therapy.
It can be a long road and a ton of hard work, but it’s
very doable and very much worth it. Hang in there.
PS. Neural Path Therapy book for handling fear and
Recovery of Your Inner Child book are also good adjuncts
Should work with a compassionate empathetic therapist
or counselor that has a good reputation for working with BPD. Good luck!!