Reply To: Gaslighting
Ok, not an idiot
Hi, Unfortunately I have had my share of relationships with S-Paths. I think I am drawn to their craving for energy. Maybe because I have so much of my own. I stay away from any serious relationships because I just don’t trust myself yet. All that to say, it’s been my experience that manipulation in an attempt to confuse you or make you feel like you are going crazy from constantly second guessing what you know deep down to be right, is a tactic they use to gain an advantage over you or to control you. That’s gas lighting from my experience. So ask yourself, what does he have to gain from keeping you on lower doses of pain meds? Does he enjoy seeing you in pain? Is he attempting to control the situation so he can prove to your family members there is something wrong with you?