Lovefraud: How to recognize and recover from sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists and other abusers › Forums › I’m a guy dealing with a female sociopath › Sociopath or Martyr Complex? › Reply To: Sociopath or Martyr Complex?
Yes, I agree with Donna (and she is the expert). I call it the pity ploy. They love pity. I got this my whole life from my sister and also now from my sociopath bf. I would not let her and her family in my house. I fear for you matters will get worse. As I read your story I was waiting for when you were going to get to the financial part. This will only get worse. The bills will get higher.
Find them an apartment and change the locks on your doors. It’s one thing to be made a fool of. Don’t wait until she exhausts your bank account.