Reply To: Am I being hoovered back into a relationship?



You’re right. They don’t change. His treatment of his current gf is evidence that he is discarding her and love bombing you. You’re obsessing because of the intermittent reward system that he uses on you that triggers chemicals in your brain, an addiction, like what casinos use on gamblers. Knowing that piece of information is the only thing that keeps me from contacting my narcopath sometimes.