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stopbuggingme
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Hi Passi,
Yes, I felt the same. Addicted and abandoned. I would ruminate about the good and the family we built which he just threw away when he threw away me. We were married 27 years and I still struggle with sending him positive thought and having conversations with him in my head. But I am such a happier person now, 6 years later. I understand wanting out of a marriage but how he did it and when he did it was just cruel. And that is why I do not contact him. I feel sad for him but I refuse to invest one more second into his games he plays with people. And you are right about the showing up. He will call. Finally after 6 years he is getting the picture and it is less. But that is how I picked my name for this site – love to you –
stopbuggingme