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It will help you in the long run to always keep in mind that he does not care how you feel nor care how what he does affect you. I was so overwhelmed by the pain I felt from my ex spath’s betrayal and it took me a very long time to truly believe the truth about his motivations.
You might consider making your number one priority right now becoming financially independent without raising his suspicions that you’re on to him. Spaths can be very dangerous. There’s no downside to getting your financial independence, no matter what you decide to do and when.
Situations involving spaths usually go downhill with time. You might also consider having a safe place for you and your sons to flee and having a plan to get away, just in case.