The same happened to me with my sociopath gf!
She left me cold. Without an explanation.

For months I cried. It took me nearly 5 years to
get over her.

I feel for you man, I really do.

Just hang in there and realize that you didnt get a
restraining order. Yes you are right restraining order
abuse is rife in the court system. Each year many such
claims are rejected because of lack of evidence.

I wouldnt worry too much about contacting her because
if you do, you’ll probably get a temporary order.
However if you BREACH that temporary order it may
escalate to the REAL restraining order which then
could incur fines or even a prison sentence.

Ask yourself WHY she threatened you with a restraining order?
Perhaps she felt you may have been controlling towards her
and her open relationship lifestyle.

As written in the articles here, female sociopaths hate to be dominated. They look for submissive men. In other words they look for weak, shy and humble men (no offence to you) who will do anything just to stay in a relationship.

You expressed your concern about her sexual promiscuity and
she got mad and closed the book on you.

Dont feel sad Sebbo. Just realize that she probably did you a favor but then again I dont like the fact that she threatened you with a restraining order. That tells me that shes either extremely angry with you for stopping her plans OR she wants to gag you into silence so you keep your mouth shut to “save face” for her in front of her family and friends.

Whatever the case may be, you did get dumped and you’re just going to have to live with it as HARD AS THAT IS .

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Thank you for your concern and good advice.

I just feel so horrible. She’s gone. I know people
say its a “blessing” etc etc but I really did love her.
Its strange that someone so arrogant and controlling
could have that affect on me.

The reason I am jealous is because I know that she
openly flirts with guys and has most likely slept with
4 since our breakup. It hurts because I imagine the
things that I experienced and feel as though my
experience was NOT special, NOT heartfelt and
feel betrayed. Yes, it may sound strange coming from
a guy but I did value those experiences as something
more than just physical and I’m really appaled to hear
from my friend that she’s back on the dating scene
again with a blackbook full of contacts for casual liasons.

I am just gutted. I dont want to draw pity on myself and
please dont think that I’m exagerating because I feel
total pain . Today I took time off work to do some walking
around a lake. I just feel so confused, so hurt and “left for dead”.

Also, I wonder if the restraining order threat was a “grudge”?
Or perhaps she didnt want her family knowing about her
promiscuous lifestyle. Perhaps I knew too much, and similar
to those films you see about the mafia – the people who know
too much always get killed. In my case, I was forced to go
No Contact and be threatened by legal sanctions and character assisination should I even dare speak up.

Ohhhh the injustice of it all !!

A Female Sociopath has BROKEN MY HEART.

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*huggles*

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Yikes: I think I just better stay away from them all together, whatever they are. hehehehe Too confusing for me.

Waving back!!!!

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Oh, and I’m the comic relief of Lovefraud. *waves*

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I am starting to think I just may be spath free now…
shhhhhh: I can’t say that too loud, “IT” might hear me…

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“hens says:

take 2 – Dont be angry for loving someone, you would never have stayed as long as you did if it all was bad. I have good memories of my X, at time’s he (acted) like the perfect partner..hey if I had known he was just acting from the get go I would of done things differently..Life aint always gonna go the way we planned, so we got to live the life we got waitin on us.. ”

xxoo ~ Dupey

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Now I can only imagine you wrapped up in wool sweaters. ITCHY sweaters. Poor thing.

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