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	<title>Lovefraud Blog &#187; Kathleen Hawk</title>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 16 – The end of recovery</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/01/08/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-16-the-end-of-recovery/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 02:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because there is so much discussion lately about pity, empathy and compassion in the wake of a relationship with a sociopath, I am writing this article to discuss compassion as it fits into the recovery process. Before I begin, I would like to humbly remind my readers that recovery, by its nature, is a progression through [...]]]></description>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 15 &#8211; Comfort and Joy</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/12/25/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-15-comfort-and-joy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2009 17:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza, the turn of the year, the winter solstice and all the holidays of the “dark” time of the year are celebrations of the miracle of renewal. The harvest and colorful leaf fall of autumn is over, and the seasons are turning again to the beginning of the annual cycle of life. Our [...]]]></description>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 14 &#8211; Discovering What We Are Capable Of</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/04/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-14-discovering-what-we-are-capable-of/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 19:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Buddhists say that we fall in love with our teachers. I know that in my relationship with the man I now belief is a sociopath, I realized early that I was in a sort of classroom. He clearly saw the world differently than I did, and operated on principles that were so foreign to [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>193</slash:comments>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 13 &#8211; Happy Emotional Independence Day</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/05/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-13-happy-emotional-independence-day/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/05/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-13-happy-emotional-independence-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 23:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy Independence Day weekend. It is a lucky coincidence that this is our topic, because emotional freedom is truly about personal revolution. It is an end to collaboration with and submission to abuse. It is an end to the emotional slavery of feeling responsible for other people’s feelings and other things that are beyond our [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>120</slash:comments>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 12 &#8211; Reclaiming Self-Love</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/28/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-12-love-101/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/28/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-12-love-101/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Love is huge topic that spans every other issue that we have discussed so far, and ones we have not touched yet. But for our purposes – to talk about our next steps in healing from traumatic relationships – we have to narrow it down. This article will discuss the most basic and important element [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>118</slash:comments>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 11 &#8211; Trust</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/21/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-11-trust/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/21/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-11-trust/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 02:02:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you. &#8211; Frederic Nietzsche In recovering from a sociopathic relationship, one of our greatest challenges is to rediscover the meaning of trust. Trust is a kind of glue in our lives. If we are going to be vibrant [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>376</slash:comments>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 10 &#8211; Forgiving</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/14/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-10-forgiving/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/14/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-10-forgiving/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2009 00:46:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article talks about work we do when we are ready to work on clearing the influence of betrayals from our minds and emotional systems. It is about recovering our feelings of safety in the world and moving forward to create better and happier lives. Those of us who are still battling our betrayers, still [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>245</slash:comments>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 9 &#8211; Returning to Wounded Innocence</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/07/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-9-returning-to-wounded-innocence/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/06/07/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-9-returning-to-wounded-innocence/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 09:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the series on recovering from traumatic relationships, this is the third article on grieving and letting go. It is an extension of the last one, which discussed exploring the past to understand our patterns of belief and behavior. This is about how we do it and what we find. Or rather about how I [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>169</slash:comments>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 8 &#8211; Waking up</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/03/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-8-waking-up/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/03/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-8-waking-up/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2009 15:30:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the eighth article in this series about the recovery path, and it is about the second half of the path. This is after we have fully accessed our anger, and begun to grieve our losses and let go. This article may not necessarily be helpful to someone who is still reeling from betrayal [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>464</slash:comments>
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		<title>After the sociopath: How do we heal? Part 7-Letting Go</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/03/29/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-7-letting-go/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/03/29/after-the-sociopath-how-do-we-heal-part-7-letting-go/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 22:26:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathleen Hawk</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Letting go is the point at which our recovery turns around from darkness to light. In previous articles, we have discussed all the stages of magical thinking, how we progressively become more and more willing to accept reality. In a trauma or extended trauma, like a relationship with a sociopath, there is a lot of [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>252</slash:comments>
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