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	<title>Lovefraud Blog &#187; Healing from a sociopath</title>
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		<title>LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Email to self</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/02/05/letters-to-lovefraud-email-to-self/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 16:49:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lovefraud Reader</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Editor’s note: Lovefraud received the following email from the reader who posts as “Duped no more!&#8221; {A brief definition of my breaking NC, after almost 9 months, and a brief explanation of the experience and what I would say if I had to explain it to someone else. I had to send it to myself [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>32</slash:comments>
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		<title>When you say yes to others, make sure you are not saying no to yourself</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/02/03/when-you-say-yes-to-others-make-sure-you-are-not-saying-no-to-yourself/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/02/03/when-you-say-yes-to-others-make-sure-you-are-not-saying-no-to-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:35:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joyce Alexander</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Joyce Alexander, RNP (retired) I guess I am making a “confession” here of being a wimp, or maybe an enabler, for the majority of my life. But when people would ask me for a “favor,” I would almost always do it, even if it meant that I had to cancel plans of my own [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>94</slash:comments>
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		<title>Happiness: How do we know when we have found it?</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/27/happiness-how-do-we-know-when-we-have-found-it/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/27/happiness-how-do-we-know-when-we-have-found-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 11:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joyce Alexander</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Joyce Alexander]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Joyce Alexander, RNP (retired) We frequently talk on Lovefraud about finding healing and being “happy” again. We discuss the words “forgiveness” and other emotionally charged words that have individual meanings and try to come to some conclusion that we have a definition of these words for ourselves. I got to thinking about the meaning [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>225</slash:comments>
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		<title>LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: See, smell, taste, hear and feel freedom</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/26/letters-to-lovefraud-see-smell-taste-hear-and-feel-freedom/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/26/letters-to-lovefraud-see-smell-taste-hear-and-feel-freedom/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:23:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lovefraud Reader</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Editor’s note: The following essay was submitted by a Lovefraud reader, who has discovered that she can find healing from her encounter with a sociopath through writing. Awakened Senses By Nancy Voelker I see … a field as I drive through the countryside. We had a picnic and laid looking at clouds, bodies entwined. I [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>31</slash:comments>
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		<title>When clergy are abusers</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/19/when-clergy-are-abusers/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/19/when-clergy-are-abusers/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 15:11:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lovefraud Reader</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Hooked by a sociopath]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Spiritual recovery]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Editor’s note: The following list was compiled by Carolyn Waterstradt, who holds a masters degree in theology and will graduate with masters degree in social work in April 2012. Carolyn owns Inner Quest Healing, where she works with survivors of clergy sexual abuse. This partial list of grooming techniques was compiled from her research with 18 [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>50</slash:comments>
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		<title>LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: If the shoe doesn’t fit, don’t wear it!</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/12/letters-to-lovefraud-if-the-shoe-doesnt-fit-dont-wear-it/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/12/letters-to-lovefraud-if-the-shoe-doesnt-fit-dont-wear-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 10:31:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lovefraud Reader</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Editor’s note: The following post was submitted by the Lovefraud reader “Adelle.” We often hear the saying, “If the shoe fits wear it.” We all know people are not referring to a shoe. In other words, if the description fits you, own up to it. If someone calls you a fool, and you think you [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>146</slash:comments>
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		<title>LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: To the liar named SHAME!</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/06/letters-to-lovefraud-to-the-liar-named-shame/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/06/letters-to-lovefraud-to-the-liar-named-shame/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 15:07:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lovefraud Reader</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Editor’s note: The following was sent to Lovefraud by the reader who posts as “Adelle.” Looking back now, I realize how much damage SHAME can do. Of course the Spaths do the damage but along the way we pick up things that we think keep us safe.  These things that we cling to so tightly [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>18</slash:comments>
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		<title>Mending boundary fences requires the right tools</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/03/mending-boundary-fences-requires-the-right-tools/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2012/01/03/mending-boundary-fences-requires-the-right-tools/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 21:57:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Joyce Alexander</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Joyce Alexander]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=5197</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[By Joyce Alexander, RNP (retired) I get most of my mail at a PO box and only a few things come to my rural mailbox, which sits on the road at the end of my driveway. A few days ago I checked the mailbox, and there were several Christmas cards … including one from an [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>79</slash:comments>
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		<title>Suffering, Agony and The Pathway to Peace</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2011/12/28/suffering-agony-the-pathway-to-peace/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2011/12/28/suffering-agony-the-pathway-to-peace/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 14:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Travis Vining</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Spiritual recovery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Travis Vining]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=5155</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Editor’s note: The following article refers to spiritual concepts. Please read Lovefraud’s statement on Spiritual Recovery. There are times when I feel completely lost in all this pain, with no way out.  It is as if I have been completely abandoned in a world full of hurt.  There seems to be no one, or no thing, [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>47</slash:comments>
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		<title>LETTERS TO LOVEFRAUD: Losing the fear of What Ifs</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2011/12/27/letters-to-lovefraud-losing-the-fear-of-what-ifs/</link>
		<comments>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2011/12/27/letters-to-lovefraud-losing-the-fear-of-what-ifs/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 18:13:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lovefraud Reader</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Healing from a sociopath]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Editor&#8217;s Note: This is another email from the Lovefraud reader whom we’re calling “Adelle.” She previously contributed, Are you seeing someone else?  I finally left my SP and like the alka-seltzer commercial used to say, “Oh what a relief it is.” My decision to leave was made a long time ago. Today I thought to myself, [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>62</slash:comments>
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