Comments on: The sociopath’s pseudo insightfulness and sensitivity http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/ Wake up to the danger of sociopaths Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:17:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: behind_blue_eyes http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-75564 behind_blue_eyes Tue, 11 May 2010 20:47:40 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-75564 Hitler loved dogs... Hitler loved dogs…

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]]> By: Outlier http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-75563 Outlier Tue, 11 May 2010 20:38:41 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-75563 When the S neighbour had her dog put down 'it was about her quality of life'. The dog's suffering meant a lot to her; she couldnt bear her dog in any pain. She was receptive to her dog's pain. The dog's pain represented her I'm sure. This the same woman who instructed her staff to abuse her patient. I stared back at her wordless as she walked away. When the S neighbour had her dog put down ‘it was about her quality of life’. The dog’s suffering meant a lot to her; she couldnt bear her dog in any pain. She was receptive to her dog’s pain. The dog’s pain represented her I’m sure. This the same woman who instructed her staff to abuse her patient.

I stared back at her wordless as she walked away.

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]]> By: Hopeforjoy http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-75559 Hopeforjoy Tue, 11 May 2010 18:52:19 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-75559 OMG! Mine has this pseudo thing down to a T. He is the ultimate in sensitivity, helpful, kind, thoughtful, a.k.a. prince charming. It will all change on a dime though, the thing is, they are soooooo convincing. It's unreal. I truely believe the narc/spath buys into their own act. They could pass a lie detector test without flinching. Mine said "I'm the most sensitive guy I know"! He actually buys into his own pile of crap. He if falling all over himself saying "I love you", "you're so beautiful today", "you're a fantastic mom". WOW! Good thing I know better. He was also telling me he knew what me and our 16 yr. old daughter were up to. Paranoia! Yep, you caught me plotting 'something' again, yet you are the most sensitive guy ever. Not! OMG! Mine has this pseudo thing down to a T. He is the ultimate in sensitivity, helpful, kind, thoughtful, a.k.a. prince charming. It will all change on a dime though, the thing is, they are soooooo convincing. It’s unreal. I truely believe the narc/spath buys into their own act. They could pass a lie detector test without flinching. Mine said “I’m the most sensitive guy I know”! He actually buys into his own pile of crap. He if falling all over himself saying “I love you”, “you’re so beautiful today”, “you’re a fantastic mom”. WOW!

Good thing I know better. He was also telling me he knew what me and our 16 yr. old daughter were up to. Paranoia! Yep, you caught me plotting ‘something’ again, yet you are the most sensitive guy ever. Not!

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]]> By: behind_blue_eyes http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-75548 behind_blue_eyes Tue, 11 May 2010 15:50:15 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-75548 I should create a profile on the dating website where I found Jamie's and send every person I meet there, instrucing them to take the following tests and answer the following questions... Via the "Dating Persona Test," Jamie is a "Manchild." A best, a Manchild is toxic; at worst, sociopathic. Via the "Personality Defect Test," Jamie is an "EMO Kid,... too gentle, rather underconfident in yourself, decidedly lacking in any rational thought, and also a bit too inhibited." Yeah, right. Not inhibited enough to put videos of himself masturbating on Xtube and being into very kink sex. "The Emo Kid: Intuitive, Introverted, Gentle, Humble." "The Manchild: Random, Brutal, Love, Dreamer." Why the disconnect? The "EMO KId" merely fits Jamie's manipulative modis operandi to get what he wants. He is not intuitive, gentle and humble. He is random and brutal. I experienced that first hand. However, he has even convinced himself otherwise. I should create a profile on the dating website where I found Jamie’s and send every person I meet there, instrucing them to take the following tests and answer the following questions…

Via the “Dating Persona Test,” Jamie is a “Manchild.” A best, a Manchild is toxic; at worst, sociopathic.

Via the “Personality Defect Test,” Jamie is an “EMO Kid,… too gentle, rather underconfident in yourself, decidedly lacking in any rational thought, and also a bit too inhibited.”

Yeah, right. Not inhibited enough to put videos of himself masturbating on Xtube and being into very kink sex.

“The Emo Kid: Intuitive, Introverted, Gentle, Humble.”
“The Manchild: Random, Brutal, Love, Dreamer.”

Why the disconnect? The “EMO KId” merely fits Jamie’s manipulative modis operandi to get what he wants. He is not intuitive, gentle and humble. He is random and brutal. I experienced that first hand.

However, he has even convinced himself otherwise.

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]]> By: shana31 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-75544 shana31 Tue, 11 May 2010 14:30:17 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-75544 Wow, this was an eye-opening article. With what my fellow "revealed" of himself after my discovery of stuff, and my wanting to believe at least part of our ordeal was the real thing, the "sociopath's gratitude" could explain why I was always left wondering why he was thanking me for doing things or going places or just spending time with him. Wow, this was an eye-opening article. With what my fellow “revealed” of himself after my discovery of stuff, and my wanting to believe at least part of our ordeal was the real thing, the “sociopath’s gratitude” could explain why I was always left wondering why he was thanking me for doing things or going places or just spending time with him.

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]]> By: bluejay http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-72790 bluejay Thu, 22 Apr 2010 12:34:28 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-72790 This article is right on - my h-spath is not interested in me, only in what he can take from me. He came by my house last week, telling me about how little money he has, asking me if I would give him some money to pay one of his female employees. I refused to give him money. The more I experience, the sicker I feel about him. He could care less about my financial hardships (brought on by him, no less) and he has the gall to try and get money from me. The man would be content to never give me a nickel. I can't stand him and due to having kids, I'll never be able to get him completely out of my life. How discouraging. When it comes to me, he is so insensitive. It's hurtful, even though I know that it's part of his make-up, still it's hurtful. Heartache city. I still get floored by my experiences. This article is right on – my h-spath is not interested in me, only in what he can take from me. He came by my house last week, telling me about how little money he has, asking me if I would give him some money to pay one of his female employees. I refused to give him money. The more I experience, the sicker I feel about him. He could care less about my financial hardships (brought on by him, no less) and he has the gall to try and get money from me. The man would be content to never give me a nickel. I can’t stand him and due to having kids, I’ll never be able to get him completely out of my life. How discouraging. When it comes to me, he is so insensitive. It’s hurtful, even though I know that it’s part of his make-up, still it’s hurtful. Heartache city. I still get floored by my experiences.

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]]> By: Stargazer http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-70394 Stargazer Mon, 05 Apr 2010 17:49:48 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-70394 Autisticsouls, I have learned so much from both of you. When I read Des' writings, I am reminded of the very wise Aborigines in Australia who are exquisitely in tune with nature. I envy that so much. Both of you are so honest and true to yourselves. Such a rare quality in modern society. Just because the majority have learned ways to fit into society doesn't mean those ways are the only ways or the most honest ways. Thank you both so much for being a part of this community! I find that the more I get to know people, the more I find we are alike than different. Autisticsouls,
I have learned so much from both of you. When I read Des’ writings, I am reminded of the very wise Aborigines in Australia who are exquisitely in tune with nature. I envy that so much. Both of you are so honest and true to yourselves. Such a rare quality in modern society. Just because the majority have learned ways to fit into society doesn’t mean those ways are the only ways or the most honest ways. Thank you both so much for being a part of this community! I find that the more I get to know people, the more I find we are alike than different.

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]]> By: ErinBrock http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-66874 ErinBrock Wed, 17 Mar 2010 05:15:09 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-66874 :) :)

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-66866 OxDrover Wed, 17 Mar 2010 03:52:14 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-66866 I just read back over today's posts on this thread, you guys are so awesome! Peace reigns at LAST! There's not a plastic potted plant or a gray rock in sight anywhere---not even one covered with buzzard guano! I just read back over today’s posts on this thread, you guys are so awesome!

Peace reigns at LAST! There’s not a plastic potted plant or a gray rock in sight anywhere—not even one covered with buzzard guano!

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]]> By: philomela http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2010/03/04/the-sociopaths-pseudo-insightfulness-and-sensitivity/comment-page-8/#comment-66855 philomela Wed, 17 Mar 2010 02:25:07 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/?p=1014#comment-66855 A-mike, Thank you so much for your words to me and for all that you write and share here. I really appreciate your clearly real insight, sensitivity and gentleness of soul. I also want to thank you and Des for the awareness you have brought here to LF about autism spectrum disorders. You and what you have brought to the discussions has also touched me deeply- the showing of what one gains by really looking and listening beneath the surface presentation-I have a son who is now 18 who is on the autism spectrum- I am also very afraid for him in this world - he is often misunderstood and seen and defined only by his disability and his presentation and people rarely take the time to really see and hear him and know him as an individual. While most of what is written on LF shows and points to how to recognize the often unseen dangers of the sociopath- You and Des have also shown and brought awareness to the often unseen gifts we may miss as well when we don't really pay attention to the details of who someone is and we only see people on a surface level - Your openness and insightfulness and Des's have brought yet another level of understanding and awareness to LF that also helps me feel more hopefulness for my son's future as well as my own. A-mike,

Thank you so much for your words to me and for all that you write and share here. I really appreciate your clearly real insight, sensitivity and gentleness of soul.

I also want to thank you and Des for the awareness you have brought here to LF about autism spectrum disorders. You and what you have brought to the discussions has also touched me deeply- the showing of what one gains by really looking and listening beneath the surface presentation-I have a son who is now 18 who is on the autism spectrum- I am also very afraid for him in this world – he is often misunderstood and seen and defined only by his disability and his presentation and people rarely take the time to really see and hear him and know him as an individual.

While most of what is written on LF shows and points to how to recognize the often unseen dangers of the sociopath- You and Des have also shown and brought awareness to the often unseen gifts we may miss as well when we don’t really pay attention to the details of who someone is and we only see people on a surface level –

Your openness and insightfulness and Des’s have brought yet another level of understanding and awareness to LF that also helps me feel more hopefulness for my son’s future as well as my own.

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