Will Allen Jordan, bigamist and sex offender, on the loose in New Jersey
PDF Lovefraud has just posted a new True Lovefraud Story about Will Allen Jordan, a con man, bigamist and sex offender who, from our information, has returned to New Jersey and is trolling dating sites looking for his next victim.
I’ve heard a lot of stories about sociopaths, and this guy is one of the worst. He has the ability, often found in sociopathic cult leaders, to get into the minds of his victims and twist their thinking. He is frightening.
Will Allen Jordan had a criminal record in the United States, where he was born. In 1992, he seduced a British woman and left the country with her, moving to the UK. He was able to start a new life, but he didn’t change his ways.
In 2000, he met and seduced another woman, Mary Turner Thomson, convincing her that he worked for the CIA. Her story is truly harrowing, and she wrote a book about it called The Bigamist—The True Story of a Husband’s Ultimate Betrayal.
Jailed in the UK, free in the USA
In 1997, Jordan was convicted in the UK of sex offenses against a child and served time. In 2006, he was convicted of failing to register as a sex offender, bigamy and other offenses. He was released in May 2009, and deported back to the United States.
When he got here, he immediately signed up for Match.com and started trolling for new victims. He found them. I know, because I spoke to them.
Unfortunately, he’s still out there. And—get this—he doesn’t have to register as a sex offender in New Jersey. Apparently, the New Jersey Megan’s Law applies only to people who were convicted in the United States. His conviction in the United Kingdom doesn’t count.
Will Allen Jordan targets single mothers of young daughters. I hope if any of them have met him online, they Google his name and find Lovefraud.
Read the True Lovefraud Story:
Convicted sex offender and bigamist deported from the UK, returns to New Jersey
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Buttons says:
Oh……………….my………………..gawd
Silvermoon………….DO IT!!!!!!!!!!! They’d sh*t twice and GO BLIND if you pursued it in the media like that!
OxD….my sides are aching….LMAO!!!!
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silvermoon says:
That is as much fun as I can imagine. I did however call several high power attornies adn start asking for consultative opinions. The first guy was a discard because he wanted me to spend money to have him tell me the same old.
The bulldog with lipstick? Waiting for her call back.
I take my own advice.
I have good information that since bigamy is a felony in my state the DA and the Sheriff and the Police can not refuse to take the report. I have information I can go to FBI and Homeland Security with.
I am also aware that he is put on a list that is checked and double checked for people who fly.
I will do everything I can, and then?
I’ve been to my Congressman, to ABC News, to OPRAH to three branches of law enforcement and multiple attorneys. If I go to the governor its going to be about why the state is going to lose 100 whitecollar jobs because I am pissed off beyond what anyone should have to forbear.
I spent the afternoon throwing up I was so frustrated. Media is fun, but I am going to play with a bigger stick and I am prepared to use it.
Enough is a godamned ‘nough.
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erin1972 says:
This makes me so angry. There is no way that the laws in New Jersey should be allowed to exist. I don’t give a rat’s ass if this man was convicted in the UK or not, his sex offender status should be registered. I am going into law enforcement to be a police officer and I can say that sex offenders DO NOT CHANGE OR STOP OFFENDING. Once I am an officer I’m going to do things in my department to prevent that from happening in my city and to help educate the general population about these evil sociopaths. We have a new police chief now who is into community policing and I plan to get out there hit the streets and start doing something productive to help people.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
as i enter into my own life, the more anger at the ppaths co opting of real people’s lives, successes and tragedies angers me.
tonight, while listening to some music that she said the boy character sung in his last week alive (let me tell you spath f i had my wishes answered, THAT would be the truth!) i cracked into tears.
no one has been here to hug me, to tell me it was a horrible thing that she did. i think of the friend who distanced herself – and how i will not pursue and will readily let go of that connection – where was she with a hug? where were people…this was a horrible thing done to me. people amaze me.
people on lf when i first came here said (thinking back especially pollyannnomore), this is a horriblt thing that was done to you. and somehow it didn’t sink in. but i am open now. this ‘slime’ that dancing spoke of in her dream – this is spath juice, and i have been wearing a mantle of it.
i am still struggling. the ptsd fells me regularly. the toxins, my allergies, get me all the time…but my spirit is rising.
oh, i feel a stirng of expleteives coming on: %(*)^(@*&(^@&*)(@#&%(@#&%)(@#&*%(@#&%*(@#&%(*@#$&%(@*)$#&^%
I won’t translate.
it’s a line i walk – to stay in the healing and rising anger, or slide into expressing rage. for a long time what i needed was to express rage, it came and came. now, i often have a choice, to go or not go there. i stand longer in the other pieces/ places of this healing. i want to be far away from her. doing my healing work. she is still not outed. i don’t know that i can do it. i may ask someone else to. i do not want to wear the slime, and dealing with stuff about her brings it on.
xx one step
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one_step_at_a_time says:
silver – i just saw your post above. i will send my big stick, and so will EB.
((((((((((((((((please take care of yourself tonight. do some gentle things. balance.))))))))))))))))))))
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OxDrover says:
Dear One_step,
There is an old saying that “when you stir chit you get it on you” and that is true as well. It is very difficult to stir chit witout splashing it on yourself. I know that, and I did stir it in my family and in the community trying to get rid of the Trojan Horse P out of my egg donor’s house, but I got splattered plenty as well. I am finally aqble to WASH IT OUT and OFF but there was a lot of stink there in my own nose for a while, so I know someitmes it is not worth it.
I would not even be going to his parole board if I did not think my LIFE DEPENDED ON IT. I would just drop it if I thought for even one second he would LEAVE ME ALONE and go on with his life, but he won’t. So I have no choice.
If you can get away from your P, cut your losses and go on with life, I highly recommend doing so—don’t stir the chit–but if they keep on and you have to, as silvermoon does, GO FOR THE GUSTO!
We can still expect to get chit on us though.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
and oxy – it’s not even actually dealing with her…it’s just thinking about doing it that triggers me. i keep waiting for it not to, and it still does.
i wish i could figure out how badly doing it would affect me and how long it would last. then i could make an educated guess and decide if it is worth it. now, that’s only about my own internal reaction – and nothing to do with what she might do.
and that’s even doing it anonymously.
and you know – i just like the light better.
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OxDrover says:
Dear One,
I thought about going around and trying to UNdo the smear campaign that my egg donor did to me in the community, with our relatives, with the neighbors, etc. and then I realized IT AIN’T WORTH IT, just doin it, thinking about it and talking about it is going to STIR UP CHIT ***WITHIN*** ME! I figured it wasn’t worth it!
The desire to “clear the slate” and to “get revenge” or “get justice” is BIG but I think in the end, most times it isn’t worth the COST in terms of OUR OWN ENERGY!
I’ve argued with myself over all this time and time again, but it always comes out to TAKE THE HIGH ROAD! Just walk on with your head high, knowing that karma will in the end make things Level again! Love Oxy
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one_step_at_a_time says:
oxy – there is no doubt that there are many moments still in which i would like to exact some sort of vengence – but there is nothing i could do, either legally or ethically, that would harm her in anyway.
she was recently caught out in a con – and she acts if nothing happened…she did nothing of consequence.
i don’t hope for justice by outing her. and i realize that i can clear the slate myself by just moving on and doing my healing work . (I have just figured THAT out in the last few days.)
my hope is that by outing her as a fake and imposter and con artist that those i know who she is presently messing with, will be given the truth. then it would be up to them to use it to free themselves or deny it. and that this long running con can be stopped; the horrid story she used against me would be over, laid to rest.
and she will have to make a new one.
and she will. she will go on to the next, and the next, and is, no doubt running about 3 or 4 at a time.
i don’t know how all this would have shaken out for me if i DIDN’t know the truth. i think i would have been forever looking over my shoulder, wondering if that car slowing down in front of my house was the person/ people who duped me. i think i would have been in the ‘slime’ place much longer.
i think i have to look at it like this – it’s about safety in the world. not about her or me. but about people like me being safe from people like her. not personal.
good for you for not trying to clear your ‘good name’. you are right – that would take an outrageous amount of energy…energy you wouldn’t have and time you couldn’t replace, that would take you away from things like this past weekend. i wish you much success in keeping him in jail oxy. much.
hugs
one step
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OxDrover says:
Dear One,
Keeping him in prison is only a part of keeping myself safe. Sort of like keeping a viscious dog in a cage since I am not allowed to kill it. If I can’t keep that dog in the cage then I have to get out of the place where it can come after me.
I actually wish he would just say TRUCE! and mean it! But there can never be a “truce” with Satan or his angels, they will never keep their word, they will never just crawl back into their holes and leave us be.
In the meantime, I’m over the worst of the internal trauma just working up the documents and so on, but now that that is DONE with I don’t have to do it again, next time, it is just write the check and let the land-shark do his best—that’s all I CAN do.
If the dog gets out of the cage, I’ll have to run and hide, but I’m prepared to do that, and if the dog does find me, that’s why they make self defense weapons and while self defense is not a crime when your life is threatened.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
oxy – i just heaved a sigh at the sober reality of what you deal with.
i am glad you have a plan of defense, and contingencies.
again, my very best wishes that you remain safe and that it never comes to having to drive it out into the country and drop it off on a lonely road.
hugs
one step
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silvermoon says:
NO, not personal at all at this point.
Its a chess game.
Its a play to win game because the other side will.
I hear you OX.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
hey silver – how are you?
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silvermoon says:
OK.
Frustrated that there is such a lackluster understanding of what is going to be unleashed when he gets out.
The big boys get it but the local folk are driving me bonkers.
Its all about cash inthe pocket to do nothing.
I am disgusted with it.
If his history is a clue, I have plenty to consider…..
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OxDrover says:
Dear One step,
I have never driven an animal out into the country or dropped it off to starve and personally I would do the same to a human who did such a thing. I have put down (sent to that great dog house or cat box in the sky) suffering animals who had no home—out here there is no pound even to take them–it is better I think to die quickly and painlessly than to starve to death or get shot and wounded by someone protecting their cattle. Or torn apart by packs of coyotes…starving is not a great way to go.
Also dropping off rabid dogs anywhere to let them prey on anything or anyone in the vacinity isn’t a good idea either. Best to just “put them down” under legal circumstances. I would never do anything illegal.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
silver – i just got up for a moment and was thinking about what oxy has been saying to me tonight; your post earlier about the affect of the frustration on your system; and my thinking about the ppath for the last couple of days….
and i realize that our healing paths and what we have to deal with with them are parallel paths. i have no doubt that YOU will be fine, no doubt that you are on a healing path.
then there is what has to be done to deal with them. impersonal, but literally utterly sickening. this is where our knees can get kicked out, because we are dealing with their severely disordered selves and not our ordered intelligence and quite capable of healing selves.
maybe this distinction doesn’t mean much – but tongiht it is the beginning of some understanding for me – not quite formed.
we get sick cause they are sickening and the systems are NOT protective – and what is it that we have to develop in ourselves to overcome being taken out by these realities?
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one_step_at_a_time says:
oxy – sorry if my allusion to dead things in bags touched your practical and realistic side.
remember – i grew up in the country and have seen all kinds of crap – most of it NOT perpetuated on our farm.
hugs
one step
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OxDrover says:
No problem, I just have a hard time with people taking “fluffy” out to the country and dropping him off to starve or with a belly full of pups to starve as well, instead of being humane and responsible. I’ve taken in my share of stray dogs picked up off the highway and two of my three dogs now are rescues (one literally off the highway). I despise “dog droppers” as bad as I do psychopaths! Neither one has any empathy for the suffering they cause!
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tobehappy says:
OMG I live in NJ and so many people I know use online dating sites! I used them at one time….since I know a few women who met their husbands/boyfriends on them. I didn’t have luck …met one stalker and one who wrote me a very nasty email when I rejected a second date! That was years ago..so I stopped.
A woman I worked with met guys and got into their cars to go out!!! Looking for Mr. Goodbar. I always met in a neutral place.
Heard two horror stories tonite from two women in my town. One found the guy was cheating (8yr r/s) by cell phone bills. Another lived with a guy 4 yrs and he was cashing his dead grandmothers ss checks. The FBI called her in ..thought she was in on it. She didn’t even know the g/m was dead till she found the death certificate!
OMG…are there any normal men out there?
I’m going to be a buddist monk.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
2b – it would be ‘nun’. and a good career/ life choice. not much money in it tho’
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erin1972 says:
Tobe-I cannot picture you in a convent. You would be totally out of place. You’re too pretty!
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silvermoon says:
One,
I’m all about live and let live.
But, if I walk away from the things that are right to be done then what I do is set the next one up. I can’t do that with a concience.
I don’t understand the people who say its ok.
it would be different if there was no clear issue- but there is one.
That is not to say I dodn’t love him or at least who I thought he was, I did.
And it feels sickening in the way it feels when you have to put an animal down. Its right, but its awful.
Only this situatiion is as much about what the lawyers can get from me as what the spath would take.
this is about the people whose job it is to serve and protect from these evil no doing them.
And this is about the fear I have of what happens down the road.
Look, everybody here has had a reprieve experience because that is what they do. When its my turn, he may not be happy with me for discovering a lot of things. For not being in his love world for not staying put. And for making sure what he sought to gain is not available any longer.
What do I think the reprieve will be about? Reconciliation? Uh, no.
So what has to be done has to be done now while there is advantage. A swift sword.
And the system is failing me over and over again.
they want my money and mytime but they don’t want to produce results and they have these weird attitudes. Like its ok for him to hit the next target.
the next poor woman who shows up here farctured as we all have been and stuggling to regain her place in the world because she was gutted by this one
I think that if I was stranded on the side of the road that these who would take my money would not stop to help and the SPATH would have.
Its a bizarre and twisted situation but, it is the way things are.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
silver –
i think you are dead right about the swift sword. i am hoping that something bears some fruit for you, really soon . that some door you bang on opens and their is someone behind it who will open the next door and the next.
i lived with a guy when i was 20. he turned out to be a violent alcoholic. i left the house one night when he was getting berserk (only one of two times i was around for that. i left the 2nd time and didn’t go back) came back hours later to find my and his favourite belongings smashed and on the lawyn, one of his vehicles in the middle of the street, a rifle in the tree, the door wide open, the animals freaked out…and him nowhere to be seen.
the phone was torn off the wall. it was 2 am. the neighbour couple was just coming home. i asked if i could use their phone. she was pregnant. he helped her to bed. and then came out to the kitchen, AND HIT ON ME.
i get it.
oh hell, i probably didn’t need to tell THAT story. sorry, i feel a bit out of it.
can you get a ‘local’ reporter onside? anyone running for re-election? anyone a political rival of any of these folks not doing their job?
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silvermoon says:
I am not in a position to make a big public campign out of it.
I think what I have to do is be persistent and if I can’t make it happen. accept it.
Like your story – it is a weird and twisted scenario and just sickening because of the frustration.
If he gets out and there isn’t a really clear don’t even think about it boundary there might as well not be one…
Maybe I make that up.
Nobody was weird than my N ex husbamd. Bat shit weird he was
never so destructive but been through so really weird stuff too.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
ahh, you had an N, too! i got one for xmas one year and it took me three years to get rid of it.
so, you are looking for an annulment/ divorce and a restraining order?
and for the state to do their job and prosecute for bigamy?
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one_step_at_a_time says:
from the lovefraud resource list:
Lawyers serving VA, USA.
Fred Dunsing, Attorney at Law
Denver
Law Offices of Fred Andrew Dunsing
1776 S Jackson St
Suite 1107
Denver, CO 80210
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Experienced and aggressive family law attorney with offices in Denver or Vail Valley that focuses on divorce, property settlements, child custody (inlcluding interstate custody battles) and visitation; child support, spousal maintenance (alimony), modifications, custodial parent relocation, grandparents’ rights to visitation, premarital agreements, and appeals of Colorado family court decisions.
Nancy Lord, Attorney at Law, M.D.
Pahrump
Nancy Lord, Ltd
1970 N Leslie Rd.
No 220
Pahrump, NV 89060
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Litigation: ASPD adverse parties both in family law and civil litigation, State and Federal criminal defense and civil trials.
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okay, off to bed. all best wishes. x
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silvermoon says:
Yes. I called three attnys today including a big DOG over in the town just west of me.
I don’t think these folks practice in VA since they are very far away and not from around here.
Virginia is well, its better to get somebody out of UVA who is from around here.
I think its a step by thing. I have to get the anulment and then pursue an PTO for when he gets out and I don’t have to use the same one or be in the same place to do that. Further west things would be easier….but that has everything to do with how the business goes and I am going to have to make the fish or cut bait decisions very soon.
The whole Spath thingg is so weird and so scary.
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one_step_at_a_time says:
it was odd that they were listed as praticing in VA; but maybe the resource page isn’t working properly.
weird and scary about sums up the shock and awe quality to it. even after the initial WTF has worn off, i think there are other levels of it as we try to extricate ourselves.
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silvermoon says:
for sure when you can look back and see how weird it was- it seems awfully so
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silvermoon says:
And learning how to think/deal /res\pond differntly…fledgling somehow- but not. fledgling ancients sort of….
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