Comments on: He Will Call It Love. (May contain triggers.) http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/ Wake up to the danger of sociopaths Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:17:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: silvermoon http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80080 silvermoon Wed, 23 Jun 2010 11:52:05 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80080 This is a great article. And a familiar playbook. It sinks in more and more over time penetrating the layers of disbelief and confusion. Yes, that is what he called it. I think there is a more succint term... This is a great article. And a familiar playbook.

It sinks in more and more over time penetrating the layers of disbelief and confusion.

Yes, that is what he called it.

I think there is a more succint term…

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]]> By: ErinBrock http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80067 ErinBrock Wed, 23 Jun 2010 04:17:09 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80067 I just got back on today....haven't seen the hens around.... He's probably off cruisen his new ride. HENS...... I just got back on today….haven’t seen the hens around….
He’s probably off cruisen his new ride.

HENS……

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]]> By: ErinBrock http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80066 ErinBrock Wed, 23 Jun 2010 04:15:30 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80066 Yeah....shake it up....at least alternate with the godivas! :) Yeah….shake it up….at least alternate with the godivas!
:)

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]]> By: Rosa http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80065 Rosa Wed, 23 Jun 2010 04:05:54 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80065 ErinBrock: I actually worked with a DJ back in the day....we played weddings together. That guy was a total Narcissist and possible Sociopath.....he was WAAAAY out there...as you can imagine living the night life of a DJ. Add DJ to the list of occupations that attract socios. Where the heck is Henry?????? ~O.K. maybe he sends the cards bi-weekly/monthly, and not weekly. Whatever, it's way too often. Get creative, and do something different for a change. Shake it up (as EB would say :) ). ErinBrock:

I actually worked with a DJ back in the day….we played weddings together.

That guy was a total Narcissist and possible Sociopath…..he was WAAAAY out there…as you can imagine living the night life of a DJ.

Add DJ to the list of occupations that attract socios.

Where the heck is Henry??????

~O.K. maybe he sends the cards bi-weekly/monthly, and not weekly.
Whatever, it’s way too often. Get creative, and do something different for a change.
Shake it up (as EB would say :) ).

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]]> By: ErinBrock http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80064 ErinBrock Wed, 23 Jun 2010 03:53:56 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80064 Rosa...... Dang.....those sappy cards suckem in everytime! EVERY WEEK???? Yikes. Maybe you should intercept a card and enclose the CD version of the Sociopath Next door for her to take a listening to? I had freinds in town this weekend for her 40th. She brought in a DJ from big city USA.....WOW was he awesome..... Never stopped, never a lull, until 3am!......and she had her son do each generation of her life in 10 year incriments on Cd's for her guests.....I've been rocking out to all the great music in my car at ear popping decimals. All remixed and continual music. I thought of you darlen as I bee bopped around town today! :) Rosa……
Dang…..those sappy cards suckem in everytime!
EVERY WEEK????
Yikes.

Maybe you should intercept a card and enclose the CD version of the Sociopath Next door for her to take a listening to?

I had freinds in town this weekend for her 40th. She brought in a DJ from big city USA…..WOW was he awesome…..
Never stopped, never a lull, until 3am!……and she had her son do each generation of her life in 10 year incriments on Cd’s for her guests…..I’ve been rocking out to all the great music in my car at ear popping decimals. All remixed and continual music.
I thought of you darlen as I bee bopped around town today!
:)

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]]> By: Rosa http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80063 Rosa Wed, 23 Jun 2010 03:40:29 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80063 My theory is that these guys go to the Hallmark store and read the taglines from the cards in the "Love" section, and that's how they come up with their "dialogue" to seduce a woman. I don't think I'm too far off, either. My Mom's boyfriend (the one obsessed with violent, bloody movies) actually sends her romantic cards every week filled with romantic prose that loses it's meaning when you get it on a daily/weekly basis, at least in my opinion. It's like eating Godiva chocolate for breakfast, lunch, & dinner. I always tell her that he's "laying it on too thick". But, she just laughs. She cannot see that her boyfriend has no depth, because she is distracted by all of these romantic cards professing "love". My Mom is dating "Luke" from "The Sociopath Next Door", unbeknownst to her, of course. HENRY!!!! Where are you????? My theory is that these guys go to the Hallmark store and read the taglines from the cards in the “Love” section, and that’s how they come up with their “dialogue” to seduce a woman.

I don’t think I’m too far off, either.

My Mom’s boyfriend (the one obsessed with violent, bloody movies) actually sends her romantic cards every week filled with romantic prose that loses it’s meaning when you get it on a daily/weekly basis, at least in my opinion.
It’s like eating Godiva chocolate for breakfast, lunch, & dinner.

I always tell her that he’s “laying it on too thick”.
But, she just laughs.
She cannot see that her boyfriend has no depth, because she is distracted by all of these romantic cards professing “love”.

My Mom is dating “Luke” from “The Sociopath Next Door”, unbeknownst to her, of course.

HENRY!!!! Where are you?????

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]]> By: Wini http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80054 Wini Wed, 23 Jun 2010 01:56:10 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80054 Lola, all I can say is that all of us are glad you found this site ... and now we get to really enjoy the depths of your soul. His loss is our gain. Peace. Lola, all I can say is that all of us are glad you found this site … and now we get to really enjoy the depths of your soul. His loss is our gain.

Peace.

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]]> By: ErinBrock http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80050 ErinBrock Wed, 23 Jun 2010 01:11:58 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80050 Lola: "I wouldn’t change anything in my life" I think this part was what he really meant.... The rest was just the ploy of manipulating your feelings into getting a way back 'in'. Sorry you got taken..... There is lot's of healing to be done. Good luck! XXOO EB Lola:
“I wouldn’t change anything in my life”

I think this part was what he really meant….
The rest was just the ploy of manipulating your feelings into getting a way back ‘in’.

Sorry you got taken…..
There is lot’s of healing to be done.

Good luck!

XXOO
EB

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]]> By: blueskies http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80029 blueskies Tue, 22 Jun 2010 21:32:16 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80029 Lola:( I am so sorry you've discovered 'he didn't mean a word':( xxxxx I still remember what it feels like:( But also glad you're 'out' and glad you found LF. xx Lola:( I am so sorry you’ve discovered ‘he didn’t mean a word’:( xxxxx I still remember what it feels like:( But also glad you’re ‘out’ and glad you found LF. xx

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]]> By: LolaAwakening http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/comment-page-9/#comment-80026 LolaAwakening Tue, 22 Jun 2010 21:17:24 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/10/28/he-will-call-it-love-may-contain-triggers/#comment-80026 Reading this made me sick! I can totally relate to this... This is an email he sent me in an attempt to regain my love and affection after I had left.... Baby.. Like I told you the ohter day I don't know what it is about you that drives me crazy.. And I don't want to know.. I just never want it to end.. I love the way you make me feel.. You bring happiness to my life and peace to my soul.. In you I have found my destiny.. My joy.. My love of my life... My bestfriend.. My lover.. My everything.. Your love makes me feel like I'm on top of the world... You are like a drug to me... I can't get enough of you and your love... I now understand why you sometimes acted the way you did with me.. Baby I am sorry from the bottom of my heart.. That I did that to us.. I will never take you for granted ever again.. Your my world.. Your my everything... And I live you with all my heart... Your an amazing woman and mother... And you'll be an amazing wife... And I want to be everything that you need and want and desire in your life for ever and ever... I wouldn't change anything in my life because it has lead me to you... I love you baby... He never meant a word of this and that was a rude awakening. Empty promises. He left twice after his returned with these types of emails and promises. UGH! Reading this made me sick! I can totally relate to this… This is an email he sent me in an attempt to regain my love and affection after I had left….

Baby.. Like I told you the ohter day I don’t know what it is about you that drives me crazy.. And I don’t want to know.. I just never want it to end.. I love the way you make me feel.. You bring happiness to my life and peace to my soul.. In you I have found my destiny.. My joy.. My love of my life… My bestfriend.. My lover.. My everything.. Your love makes me feel like I’m on top of the world… You are like a drug to me… I can’t get enough of you and your love… I now understand why you sometimes acted the way you did with me.. Baby I am sorry from the bottom of my heart.. That I did that to us.. I will never take you for granted ever again.. Your my world.. Your my everything… And I live you with all my heart… Your an amazing woman and mother… And you’ll be an amazing wife… And I want to be everything that you need and want and desire in your life for ever and ever… I wouldn’t change anything in my life because it has lead me to you…
I love you baby…

He never meant a word of this and that was a rude awakening. Empty promises. He left twice after his returned with these types of emails and promises. UGH!

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