Comments on: All that glitters is not gold

By: one_step_at_a_time

one_step_at_a_time — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 22:45:03 +0000

welcome!

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By: Renewedhope

Renewedhope — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 18:49:24 +0000

Thanks so much One Step! Will be getting it soon along with The Sociopath Next Door.

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By: one_step_at_a_time

one_step_at_a_time — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 18:05:00 +0000

Hi renewedhope:

you can purchase it through the lovefraud store or amazon.

i got mine from the library.

best,
onestep

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By: Renewedhope

Renewedhope — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 16:46:38 +0000

Thanks one step. Where do I find the betrayal bond? Love to work on things!

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By: one_step_at_a_time

one_step_at_a_time — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:10:55 +0000

Renewedhope:

Hang in there!

I don’t know if you have read the Bretrayal Bond. I am going through it and doing the exercises. Very helpful. It is important to go deeply into ourselves to do the work we need to do to heal and not just take refuge in our relationships, as grateful as we are for them. we need to put the emphasis on ourselves and our healing, so as not to burden them with the weight of the work we need to do.

best,
one step

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By: Renewedhope

Renewedhope — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 09:05:19 +0000

It’s been 32 days now NC with s woman who almost ruined my marriage and life. Upon reading your responses, I was reminded of some of the things S woman said to me..again the same things you all were told: That You are my soul mate and that no one Knows me as well as you do! Well evidently I didn’t know the main thing about you ol’girl or I would NOT have spent 27 years thinking you would change..or more importantly that you actually cared about me.
Today I am more confident than I was a month ago. My wife and I are back to where we were before S woman lied and said she dying and I “had to tell her how much I still love her”That I didn’t want her to leave this Earth plane without her knowing that. S woman became”Smitten” with me all over again thus starting a long distance/2 month emotional affair via the email and phone.
I look at my beloved wife now with a renewed infatuation that hasn’t been there for a long while and realize who really does love me with a whole heart and soul. That she hung in there durng that 2 months in fear that I would leave her forS woman. S woman- who had me so screwed up emotonally that I almost left the best thing that ever happened to me, and almost did it twice. The only thing that saved me this time was that it was in the dead of winter and S woman went through her cycle a little too fast: first “acting” totally smitten with me..whispering sweet nothings in my ear over the phone and within a month and a half later..insulting me and telling me that it was all my fault for the affair.”You should have known better,you are married!” and “It was wrong and you know it!” Ok she was right: I had this emotinal affair all alone for 2 months. She had nothing to do with it! (Yeah..Right!)Had she not went through her “Bored” stage I would still be in her grasp and still committing myself to about $2,500 of my fathers estate money when it clears probate. But she really screwed up this time because she had a sure thing until she insulted me January 27th on the phone. I would have still came through with the dough too just as her friend until I found out that she was playing me like a violin because she is a S!!! Some friend!
My wife and I lay next to each other last night in bed holding hands and gazing into each others eyes thanking God for seeing us through this rough time. My wife telling me that our reationship was actually stronger for the experience. I agreed with her but sure wished foresight was 20/20 as well as hindsight. Everyday gets a little easier. My marriage alot stronger. Because I decided to keep the real gold over the fool’s gold!

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By: ErinBrock

ErinBrock — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 07:41:28 +0000

Hens….
Pot plant……roll that up!
AND SMOKE IT!!!!

Good night…..sweet dreams love bug!

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By: hens

hens — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 07:32:56 +0000

well~~!!!! it take you so long to answer or comment – I thot I was all alone= just me and yu and the pot plant?

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By: hens

hens — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 07:31:19 +0000

yep potted plant….gnite.

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By: ErinBrock

ErinBrock — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 07:31:03 +0000

I’ll just call him George…..he’ll ask why …….
And i’ll tell him because he’s gonna remind me of curious george any minute…..cuz he’s NEVER gonna know why!

Am I now having a conversation with myself????
HENS>>>>>>>>>>HEEEEENNNNNNSSSSSS>>>>>>

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