Comments on: The Narcissiopath http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/ Wake up to the danger of sociopaths Tue, 07 Feb 2012 06:52:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Ox Drover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-95084 Ox Drover Sun, 28 Nov 2010 18:02:57 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-95084 Amen sister! They also confuse empathy with weakness many times. Amen sister! They also confuse empathy with weakness many times.

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]]> By: Spirit40 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-95081 Spirit40 Sun, 28 Nov 2010 17:37:35 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-95081 Another thing I think we need to teach and learn is never let anyone see you sweat! and do not show your weakness we need to be stonger if we show weakness BAM they got something to use against you! Another thing I think we need to teach and learn is never let anyone see you sweat! and do not show your weakness we need to be stonger if we show weakness BAM they got something to use against you!

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]]> By: Ox Drover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-95073 Ox Drover Sun, 28 Nov 2010 16:14:24 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-95073 Glad you are doing well---I tried to go to your web site and for some reason it wouldn't open, not sure why. I had seen it before, BTW and is a good site. Glad you are doing well and passing on the information. You are definitely right too, every day is a GIFT!!!! Glad you are doing well—I tried to go to your web site and for some reason it wouldn’t open, not sure why. I had seen it before, BTW and is a good site.

Glad you are doing well and passing on the information.

You are definitely right too, every day is a GIFT!!!!

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]]> By: contact @imarriedmaurice http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-95026 contact @imarriedmaurice Sun, 28 Nov 2010 00:32:51 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-95026 The thing I have noticed that seems most upsetting to a Narcissiopath......... Bigamy Stigamy Bigamists practice their work in the dark Defrauding and using their prey It all seems like fun till they're caught in the light And their deeds see the bright light of day. How strange they do seem when their deeds become known A stigma that can't be erased Their talents are used for the basest work known As a thing those who see will detest. Sherry Parker Daniel After a long wait the first move of the legal process moves forward in the case of John Maurice Jones of Savannah GA Thanks to Lovefraud for helping me wrap my head around the "you can never truly understand it" issue of Narcissiopathy. Reading the posts & comments helps me feel deeply for those who have also been through this mess. I continue to advocate self esteem, a healthy dose of humor and personal growth to all. Encouraging all to believe there will be greater wisdom, joy and real peace at some point in their recovery, I am an advocate for victims fighting back through the legal system and not through the venues of defense against gossip and entangling oneself with the Poisoned Ones. Embrace the future, deal with the issues from the past and build a newer, wiser you for a much happier future life. I have found you can be happier than you ever were before. I survived and am alive! Everyday is a gift! The thing I have noticed that seems most upsetting to a Narcissiopath………

Bigamy Stigamy

Bigamists practice their work in the dark
Defrauding and using their prey
It all seems like fun till they’re caught in the light
And their deeds see the bright light of day.
How strange they do seem when their deeds become known
A stigma that can’t be erased
Their talents are used for the basest work known
As a thing those who see will detest.

Sherry Parker Daniel

After a long wait the first move of the legal process moves forward in the case of John Maurice Jones of Savannah GA

Thanks to Lovefraud for helping me wrap my head around the “you can never truly understand it” issue of Narcissiopathy. Reading the posts & comments helps me feel deeply for those who have also been through this mess. I continue to advocate self esteem, a healthy dose of humor and personal growth to all. Encouraging all to believe there will be greater wisdom, joy and real peace at some point in their recovery, I am an advocate for victims fighting back through the legal system and not through the venues of defense against gossip and entangling oneself with the Poisoned Ones. Embrace the future, deal with the issues from the past and build a newer, wiser you for a much happier future life. I have found you can be happier than you ever were before. I survived and am alive! Everyday is a gift!

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-57287 OxDrover Fri, 11 Dec 2009 13:12:35 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-57287 Eyeswideshut? Yea I think I glued my closed! LOL Eyeswideshut? Yea I think I glued my closed! LOL

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]]> By: citykitty617 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-57277 citykitty617 Fri, 11 Dec 2009 07:20:39 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-57277 Thanks, Oxy. I always check in and try only to comment if I have positivity to share. I am thrilled to see that Henry has a date! I also very much like ErinBrock's comment about him enjoying himself... with eyes open. Reminds me of Eyes Wide Shut, which obviously is how many of us had lived for so long. Peace :) Thanks, Oxy. I always check in and try only to comment if I have positivity to share. I am thrilled to see that Henry has a date! I also very much like ErinBrock’s comment about him enjoying himself… with eyes open. Reminds me of Eyes Wide Shut, which obviously is how many of us had lived for so long. Peace :)

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]]> By: ErinBrock http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-57275 ErinBrock Fri, 11 Dec 2009 06:45:48 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-57275 Henry: I am thrilled you are going to get out!!! If it works....great.....if not....ya got nothing to lose! The fact your open to the invite is incredible..... You know what to do.....keep it easy, light and JUST ENJOY YOURSELF....with your eyes open!!!!! Don't do anything I wouldn't do!!!! :) Have fun!! Henry:
I am thrilled you are going to get out!!!
If it works….great…..if not….ya got nothing to lose!
The fact your open to the invite is incredible…..
You know what to do…..keep it easy, light and JUST ENJOY YOURSELF….with your eyes open!!!!!
Don’t do anything I wouldn’t do!!!!
:)

Have fun!!

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]]> By: skylar http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-57272 skylar Fri, 11 Dec 2009 06:06:28 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-57272 Hi Henry, yeah, you are overreacting. she wants you to have a GREAT first date and she has an OBJECTIVE perspective. WE, (you and I) have a SUBJECTIVE perspective, so it's hard for us to not think our experience was important - because it was. I talk about it to EVERYONE. Still, I know that your friend is probably right: you can't build a friendship on negativity - or so I've heard. Have fun, be the person you were BEFORE the xP. LAUGH. Laughter is the best for making friends. People remember the people who made them laugh. Hi Henry,
yeah, you are overreacting.
she wants you to have a GREAT first date and she has an OBJECTIVE perspective. WE, (you and I) have a SUBJECTIVE perspective, so it’s hard for us to not think our experience was important – because it was. I talk about it to EVERYONE. Still, I know that your friend is probably right: you can’t build a friendship on negativity – or so I’ve heard. Have fun, be the person you were BEFORE the xP. LAUGH. Laughter is the best for making friends. People remember the people who made them laugh.

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-57261 OxDrover Fri, 11 Dec 2009 03:51:47 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-57261 Henry, I think you got several good pieces of advice on that first date! In fact, focus on HIM, let him do most of the talking and ask "open-ended" questions (ones that don't require a yes or no answer) to encouarge him to talk about himself. keep your end of the conversation light and airy and general, go slow and just get to know each other as friends. Any relationship (romantic or otherwise) needs to have a basis of FRIENDSHIP before anything else. Chemistray is OK, but SOON WEARS THIN, BUT FRIENDSHIP + chemistry LASTS. Have a greeat time! (((hugs))) oxy Henry, I

think you got several good pieces of advice on that first date! In fact, focus on HIM, let him do most of the talking and ask “open-ended” questions (ones that don’t require a yes or no answer) to encouarge him to talk about himself.

keep your end of the conversation light and airy and general, go slow and just get to know each other as friends. Any relationship (romantic or otherwise) needs to have a basis of FRIENDSHIP before anything else. Chemistray is OK, but SOON WEARS THIN, BUT FRIENDSHIP + chemistry LASTS.

Have a greeat time! (((hugs))) oxy

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]]> By: witsend http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/comment-page-9/#comment-57259 witsend Fri, 11 Dec 2009 02:44:01 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/07/16/the-narcissiopath/#comment-57259 Henry, It is great you have a date coming up! Good for you... You know a first date is a first date....It should be fun :) In the past I think I have made the mistake in the early stages of getting to know someone, of offering to much information about my past, to soon....Not necessarily in the first date but still early on in the relationship.... I think if I had it to do again at this point in my life I would offer less information and really focus on trying to get to know the other person. With offering alot less about myself in the early stages. I don't know if this is helpful or not to you but sometimes when we first meet someone being an open book is not in our best self interest. I say go out and just have fun. You have a great sense of humor. Laughing on a first date is a good way to go.... Henry,
It is great you have a date coming up! Good for you…

You know a first date is a first date….It should be fun :)

In the past I think I have made the mistake in the early stages of getting to know someone, of offering to much information about my past, to soon….Not necessarily in the first date but still early on in the relationship….

I think if I had it to do again at this point in my life I would offer less information and really focus on trying to get to know the other person. With offering alot less about myself in the early stages.

I don’t know if this is helpful or not to you but sometimes when we first meet someone being an open book is not in our best self interest.

I say go out and just have fun. You have a great sense of humor. Laughing on a first date is a good way to go….

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