Comments on: PTSD, defeat and the victim identity http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/ Wake up to the danger of sociopaths Mon, 22 Mar 2010 11:23:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58195 OxDrover Fri, 25 Dec 2009 16:20:47 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58195 MUSIC!!! "I nightmaring of a whiiiiiiiite Chistmas! Just like the ones we usta hav----with the temps in the min-us and the winds in the doub-ellllll dig-ettttts, with the four-wheeeeel drivers skidddin, all ohhh0ver the roaddddd. and the tree tops fallll'in ann the power lines burning, as the housesss go darkkkk, " And guess what IT'S TRUE!!!! I must have beeeen aaah baaaaad girl this year! Every time we get one of them sentimental "white crummuses" that they sing about up north with all them sleigh bells ringing, no body seems to think about the poor farmers trudging out in that nasty mess to try to get hay to his pore critters in the freaking blizzard! Oh, well, MERRY CRIMUS YOU GUYS, ROTFLMAO!!! MUSIC!!! “I nightmaring of a whiiiiiiiite Chistmas! Just like the ones we usta hav—-with the temps in the min-us and the winds in the doub-ellllll dig-ettttts, with the four-wheeeeel drivers skidddin, all ohhh0ver the roaddddd. and the tree tops fallll’in ann the power lines burning, as the housesss go darkkkk, ”

And guess what IT’S TRUE!!!! I must have beeeen aaah baaaaad girl this year! Every time we get one of them sentimental “white crummuses” that they sing about up north with all them sleigh bells ringing, no body seems to think about the poor farmers trudging out in that nasty mess to try to get hay to his pore critters in the freaking blizzard!

Oh, well, MERRY CRIMUS YOU GUYS, ROTFLMAO!!!

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]]> By: ErinBrock http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58186 ErinBrock Fri, 25 Dec 2009 06:11:00 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58186 OXY: GREAT visual!!!! The old truck, the peacock hat and the spandex body condom in black with a bucket of feed in her hand and goat chasing around her for the feed.....or the feather!!!!! NICE! OXY:
GREAT visual!!!!
The old truck, the peacock hat and the spandex body condom in black with a bucket of feed in her hand and goat chasing around her for the feed…..or the feather!!!!!

NICE!

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]]> By: one_step_at_a_time http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58182 one_step_at_a_time Fri, 25 Dec 2009 06:00:56 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58182 I am writing an old friend and telling him what has been happening in the last year, and one of those things is the spath. Two lines stand out about her: 'She is a sociopath. She created a whole life for half a dozen people on two continents – wildly creative and crazy as batshit.' and 'It is like being shot in the head and receiving a brain injury.' I am writing an old friend and telling him what has been happening in the last year, and one of those things is the spath. Two lines stand out about her:

‘She is a sociopath. She created a whole life for half a dozen people on two continents – wildly creative and crazy as batshit.’

and

‘It is like being shot in the head and receiving a brain injury.’

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58136 OxDrover Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:43:33 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58136 Dear Henry, I am "ashamed of you" throwing your faithful possom killin' weiner dogs out of bed for some hot sexy santa! What a BEAST you are! I take back all the good things I said about you! LOL ROTFLMAO Sorry your weather is worse than mine, but actually, now that I think about it, glad it is you and not me.! I had to go to the barn this mornig as son C got a late start and didn't have time to do animal care before he left for work, so pulled on my rubber "bib over-hauls" I hadn't worn in a couple of years and realized they fit like a SPANDEX suit! Barely shoehorned by tub of lard butt into them, so guess what my New Year's resolution is going to be now that I have quit smoking--2010 is the year of the SLIMMER me! Gotta BE! Hey that rhymes! It is pouring buckets here, but is 53 out today but going to turn below freezing tonight when the cold front passes over you and comes here, so we may get a "wintry mix" tonight but tomorrow is supposed to be 40 in the day time, but with 25-30 MPH winds, so won't be a day to play outside for sure. Thank goodness I don't have to go over the hills and through the woods to the egg donor's house! Not even in a sleigh! Dear Henry,

I am “ashamed of you” throwing your faithful possom killin’ weiner dogs out of bed for some hot sexy santa! What a BEAST you are! I take back all the good things I said about you! LOL ROTFLMAO

Sorry your weather is worse than mine, but actually, now that I think about it, glad it is you and not me.! I had to go to the barn this mornig as son C got a late start and didn’t have time to do animal care before he left for work, so pulled on my rubber “bib over-hauls” I hadn’t worn in a couple of years and realized they fit like a SPANDEX suit! Barely shoehorned by tub of lard butt into them, so guess what my New Year’s resolution is going to be now that I have quit smoking–2010 is the year of the SLIMMER me! Gotta BE! Hey that rhymes!

It is pouring buckets here, but is 53 out today but going to turn below freezing tonight when the cold front passes over you and comes here, so we may get a “wintry mix” tonight but tomorrow is supposed to be 40 in the day time, but with 25-30 MPH winds, so won’t be a day to play outside for sure.

Thank goodness I don’t have to go over the hills and through the woods to the egg donor’s house! Not even in a sleigh!

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]]> By: henry http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58134 henry Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:30:19 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58134 Oh the weather out side is frightful. Woke up to ice and snow. Gonna bake cookies and wallpaper my bathroom. And keep you all company. WIT I let my weiner dogs sleep with me but ifn santa is hot and sexy when come to vist later today I will kick they little butts out of bed in newyork minute......just call me HO HO HO..... Oh the weather out side is frightful. Woke up to ice and snow. Gonna bake cookies and wallpaper my bathroom. And keep you all company. WIT I let my weiner dogs sleep with me but ifn santa is hot and sexy when come to vist later today I will kick they little butts out of bed in newyork minute……just call me HO HO HO…..

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58133 OxDrover Thu, 24 Dec 2009 17:27:05 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58133 Dear Wit, AFter years of saying (and meanign it) no more dogs in the house, I adopted this Jack Russell from a friend who had to rehome it so she could move and hide from her P x husband, couldn't afford to take care of the dog. he is a love, but very needy, so sleeps with me...under the covers in the winter, and on a little bed of his on top of the cvoers in the warmer months. The cat of mine we had to bring in the house to protect her from C's Psychopathic Now-outside cats is now the queen of the house and want to sleep on the bed with me as well, but they then start to play at night (theya re now great wrestlilng palls and we have feline/canine WWW all over the house as well as foot and hurdle races, but I keep her out of bedroom at night (she thinks that is a GREAT injustice!) the dog gloats! Yea, they run our lives, but you know, I'd rather have a narcissistic cat or dog than a narcissistic person any day, with the cat or dog at least, if they get too pushy or entitled you can always pick it up and put it in another room (outside's no more an option for the cat) I do give her some slack though since she had cat-PTSD from being persecuted by the 3X bigger cats (two of them) and actually fled for her life! She really was HYPER-ALERT for a long time until she came in the house TO STAY. Even afraid to eat without looking around every other bite even with us standing there protecting her while she ate. Now she is a butter ball and eats when she wants to witout the hyper-vigilence. She loves to play and wrestle with the dog and they play rough but not mean and no one gets hurt or mad, so the dog has a playmate which he needed and she has someone to trust and play with. I hope that all of us overcome the PTSD as well as the cat seems to have! (but not that we get as narcissistic and entitled as she seems to think she is now! LOL) Dear Wit,

AFter years of saying (and meanign it) no more dogs in the house, I adopted this Jack Russell from a friend who had to rehome it so she could move and hide from her P x husband, couldn’t afford to take care of the dog. he is a love, but very needy, so sleeps with me…under the covers in the winter, and on a little bed of his on top of the cvoers in the warmer months.

The cat of mine we had to bring in the house to protect her from C’s Psychopathic Now-outside cats is now the queen of the house and want to sleep on the bed with me as well, but they then start to play at night (theya re now great wrestlilng palls and we have feline/canine WWW all over the house as well as foot and hurdle races, but I keep her out of bedroom at night (she thinks that is a GREAT injustice!) the dog gloats!

Yea, they run our lives, but you know, I’d rather have a narcissistic cat or dog than a narcissistic person any day, with the cat or dog at least, if they get too pushy or entitled you can always pick it up and put it in another room (outside’s no more an option for the cat) I do give her some slack though since she had cat-PTSD from being persecuted by the 3X bigger cats (two of them) and actually fled for her life! She really was HYPER-ALERT for a long time until she came in the house TO STAY. Even afraid to eat without looking around every other bite even with us standing there protecting her while she ate. Now she is a butter ball and eats when she wants to witout the hyper-vigilence. She loves to play and wrestle with the dog and they play rough but not mean and no one gets hurt or mad, so the dog has a playmate which he needed and she has someone to trust and play with. I hope that all of us overcome the PTSD as well as the cat seems to have! (but not that we get as narcissistic and entitled as she seems to think she is now! LOL)

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]]> By: witsend http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58116 witsend Thu, 24 Dec 2009 16:12:01 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58116 Henry, I do Henry....He now has control of the couch. He even let me sit there with him yesterday..LOL. When he first started to do this if I gave him a "look" he would get off the couch. Then after awile that didn't work but if I went to sit on the couch he would get down and go lay on his soft chair. Yesterday we just all sat on there together. My 2 dogs and me watching TV. Mind you this isn't a full sized couch it is love seat sized. Good thing I don't have a boyfriend. He would have no place to sit....Well, unless he wanted to sit in the dogs soft chair. Ha, :) Henry,
I do Henry….He now has control of the couch. He even let me sit there with him yesterday..LOL. When he first started to do this if I gave him a “look” he would get off the couch. Then after awile that didn’t work but if I went to sit on the couch he would get down and go lay on his soft chair. Yesterday we just all sat on there together. My 2 dogs and me watching TV. Mind you this isn’t a full sized couch it is love seat sized.
Good thing I don’t have a boyfriend. He would have no place to sit….Well, unless he wanted to sit in the dogs soft chair. Ha, :)

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]]> By: henry http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58099 henry Thu, 24 Dec 2009 06:35:41 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58099 Wit Just let him have the couch, you can buy a new one some day. One time my N mother came to my house and said she would buy me some new cushions for my lawn chairs if I would not let the dogs get on them. I said No thanks I dont want cushions my dogs cant get on. Back to the pitt bulls I have thots of s-ex up a tree with three pitt bulls sitting there licking their chops. I would get my vidio camera and send you all a copy.....sometimes I crack myself up....oh well... Wit Just let him have the couch, you can buy a new one some day. One time my N mother came to my house and said she would buy me some new cushions for my lawn chairs if I would not let the dogs get on them. I said No thanks I dont want cushions my dogs cant get on.
Back to the pitt bulls I have thots of s-ex up a tree with three pitt bulls sitting there licking their chops. I would get my vidio camera and send you all a copy…..sometimes I crack myself up….oh well…

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]]> By: one_step_at_a_time http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58098 one_step_at_a_time Thu, 24 Dec 2009 06:31:45 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58098 KATHLEEN - WOW! Control all>copy>print best, one step KATHLEEN -

WOW! Control all>copy>print

best,
one step

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]]> By: one_step_at_a_time http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/comment-page-4/#comment-58097 one_step_at_a_time Thu, 24 Dec 2009 06:26:00 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/05/29/ptsd-defeat-and-the-victim-identity/#comment-58097 EILEEN - Thanks for the support, and ANY time you want to poke fun at spaths, I've your girl! pointy words or stix; makes no difference to me. :) EILEEN – Thanks for the support, and ANY time you want to poke fun at spaths, I’ve your girl!

pointy words or stix; makes no difference to me.

:)

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