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		<title>By: truebeliever</title>
		<link>http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2009/03/09/book-review-a-dance-with-the-devil/comment-page-2/#comment-30656</link>
		<dc:creator>truebeliever</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2009 15:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>THANK YOU! learn the lesson- You are true to your name. I love your posts! You have truly learned so much and have much wisdom to share. Thank you for your help and wonderful positive attitude that you share daily.  You are an inspiration to us all!
I will focus on the Mediator and conduct myself in a business manner. No emotional outbursts.  Thanks again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>THANK YOU! learn the lesson- You are true to your name. I love your posts! You have truly learned so much and have much wisdom to share. Thank you for your help and wonderful positive attitude that you share daily.  You are an inspiration to us all!<br />
I will focus on the Mediator and conduct myself in a business manner. No emotional outbursts.  Thanks again!
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		<title>By: learnthelesson</title>
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		<dc:creator>learnthelesson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 03:33:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Truebeliever - Way to go!!!! Glad you received some money back!  My suggestion for the courtroom is to focus everything..all you have... on the Mediator.  Answer the mediator only.  Go with the intention of having one goal in mind and accomplish it... providing the financial evidence of what is owed.  Do not get twisted up in any way shape or form in his responses or requests...focus on the mediator...believe in yourself...trust yourself...know you are right where you should be in collecting what is rightfully yours.  Handling it like a busines meeting is a great way to go into it and out of it.  Head held high, and stay focused on the Mediator.  GOOD LUCK!   Going to go check out the link you posted..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Truebeliever &#8211; Way to go!!!! Glad you received some money back!  My suggestion for the courtroom is to focus everything..all you have&#8230; on the Mediator.  Answer the mediator only.  Go with the intention of having one goal in mind and accomplish it&#8230; providing the financial evidence of what is owed.  Do not get twisted up in any way shape or form in his responses or requests&#8230;focus on the mediator&#8230;believe in yourself&#8230;trust yourself&#8230;know you are right where you should be in collecting what is rightfully yours.  Handling it like a busines meeting is a great way to go into it and out of it.  Head held high, and stay focused on the Mediator.  GOOD LUCK!   Going to go check out the link you posted..
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 03:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>truebeliever:

Yup, you did. You can jump on board this round -- keeping_faith and I are creating a new game called pin the testicles on her ex. 

He&#039;s the loser -- forgive me, AMERICAN HERO with TINY TESTICLES after the Iraquis put electrodes on them and shrank them. Tragic, I know. So, we&#039;re going to do our on version of &quot;pin the tail on the donkey&quot; called &quot;Pin the testicles on the ASSH___. Family fun for everyone.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>truebeliever:</p>
<p>Yup, you did. You can jump on board this round &#8212; keeping_faith and I are creating a new game called pin the testicles on her ex. </p>
<p>He&#8217;s the loser &#8212; forgive me, AMERICAN HERO with TINY TESTICLES after the Iraquis put electrodes on them and shrank them. Tragic, I know. So, we&#8217;re going to do our on version of &#8220;pin the tail on the donkey&#8221; called &#8220;Pin the testicles on the ASSH___. Family fun for everyone.
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		<title>By: truebeliever</title>
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		<dc:creator>truebeliever</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 01:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shucks! I missed out on the early &quot;happy hour&quot;. I remember an earlier post from Matt and Henry, ( How is Henry by the way?) About a gay performance,  &quot;The Melt Sisters&quot; Patti and Tuna who came out with rubber boots and umbrellas to &quot;It&#039;s Raining Men&quot; with naked pictures of men raining out of their umbrellas. Still makes me smile and laugh when I picture it!  Thank you for that visual!


I found this web site to help get over a break up. It is a 30 day plan to positive change that might help those of us that are still hanging on and feeling hopeless. Hope it helps.
http://www.first30days.com/breaking-up


I also have news- I received money from the contempt order from my S! He avoided a 90 day stay in jail. He even paid for mediation (court ordered). I am happy but then a little frightened ,from what Oxy and others have posted, What will I have to pay for this win? I have never experienced Mediation and do not know what to expect. I am planning on handling it like a business meeting and laying out the financial evidence of what is owed etc. I really hate to be in a room with just the S and a female Mediator. I am kind of dreading the &quot;twisted battle&quot; or shall I say, &quot;Dance with the Devil&quot;. Any suggestions?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shucks! I missed out on the early &#8220;happy hour&#8221;. I remember an earlier post from Matt and Henry, ( How is Henry by the way?) About a gay performance,  &#8220;The Melt Sisters&#8221; Patti and Tuna who came out with rubber boots and umbrellas to &#8220;It&#8217;s Raining Men&#8221; with naked pictures of men raining out of their umbrellas. Still makes me smile and laugh when I picture it!  Thank you for that visual!</p>
<p>I found this web site to help get over a break up. It is a 30 day plan to positive change that might help those of us that are still hanging on and feeling hopeless. Hope it helps.<br />
<a href="http://www.first30days.com/breaking-up" rel="nofollow">http://www.first30days.com/breaking-up</a></p>
<p>I also have news- I received money from the contempt order from my S! He avoided a 90 day stay in jail. He even paid for mediation (court ordered). I am happy but then a little frightened ,from what Oxy and others have posted, What will I have to pay for this win? I have never experienced Mediation and do not know what to expect. I am planning on handling it like a business meeting and laying out the financial evidence of what is owed etc. I really hate to be in a room with just the S and a female Mediator. I am kind of dreading the &#8220;twisted battle&#8221; or shall I say, &#8220;Dance with the Devil&#8221;. Any suggestions?
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 20:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OxDrover:

I guess you host 2 versions of the LF gathering. The first is rated G for General Audiences and the second is rated...Hmmm...what would be the rating for no-holds barred?</description>
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<p>I guess you host 2 versions of the LF gathering. The first is rated G for General Audiences and the second is rated&#8230;Hmmm&#8230;what would be the rating for no-holds barred?
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		<title>By: Jim in Indiana USA</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim in Indiana USA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 19:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oxy...WHAT?  I got the Bumble Bee tu-tu and the waders...and the Richard Simmons workouts...we can get the chest high waders...the children won&#039;t see us peeing and we&#039;ll just have that &quot;warm feeling&quot;....

learnEDthe lesson...the Jeep Wrangler wave...Cherokees, Patriots, etc don&#039;t qualify.  Hands on the wheel...couple (2-4) fingers.  With the top or driver window down and arm out...I have done it with the &quot;off-wheel&quot; hand.  Nobody ran me down to correct me or quiz me on technical terms like &quot;breakover angle&quot; or stuff.  I think it&#039;s a &quot;global&quot; thing.  Every state I&#039;ve been in since I got it...5 or 6 at least...it&#039;s required.  My 26 year old rented a Wrangler in Hawaii last year...same thing.

Matt...Backup, girls...well, I wouldn&#039;t touch that one with a ten-foot &quot;post&quot;...LOL</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oxy&#8230;WHAT?  I got the Bumble Bee tu-tu and the waders&#8230;and the Richard Simmons workouts&#8230;we can get the chest high waders&#8230;the children won&#8217;t see us peeing and we&#8217;ll just have that &#8220;warm feeling&#8221;&#8230;.</p>
<p>learnEDthe lesson&#8230;the Jeep Wrangler wave&#8230;Cherokees, Patriots, etc don&#8217;t qualify.  Hands on the wheel&#8230;couple (2-4) fingers.  With the top or driver window down and arm out&#8230;I have done it with the &#8220;off-wheel&#8221; hand.  Nobody ran me down to correct me or quiz me on technical terms like &#8220;breakover angle&#8221; or stuff.  I think it&#8217;s a &#8220;global&#8221; thing.  Every state I&#8217;ve been in since I got it&#8230;5 or 6 at least&#8230;it&#8217;s required.  My 26 year old rented a Wrangler in Hawaii last year&#8230;same thing.</p>
<p>Matt&#8230;Backup, girls&#8230;well, I wouldn&#8217;t touch that one with a ten-foot &#8220;post&#8221;&#8230;LOL
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		<title>By: OxDrover</title>
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		<dc:creator>OxDrover</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 17:53:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Guys, I&#039;m not sure I can host the FAMILY FRIENDLY LF party if you guys are going to be doing the &quot;entertaining&quot; LOL I have a feeling that if there are children here they might be traumatized if they saw their parents rolling around on the floor peeing on themselves while they laughed at you guys. 

Especially the thought of you guys doing this in the official UNIFORM of bumble-bee tu-tus and thigh rubber wading boots and of course Henry in his felt skillet hat! ROTFLMAO I swear I have laughed more today than is good for my blood pressure! The visual in my head is just toooooo REAL!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Guys, I&#8217;m not sure I can host the FAMILY FRIENDLY LF party if you guys are going to be doing the &#8220;entertaining&#8221; LOL I have a feeling that if there are children here they might be traumatized if they saw their parents rolling around on the floor peeing on themselves while they laughed at you guys. </p>
<p>Especially the thought of you guys doing this in the official UNIFORM of bumble-bee tu-tus and thigh rubber wading boots and of course Henry in his felt skillet hat! ROTFLMAO I swear I have laughed more today than is good for my blood pressure! The visual in my head is just toooooo REAL!
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 16:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>learnedthelesson:

That&#039;s right. Henry and Jim will be my backup girls. To keep the spotlight on me, I&#039;ll keep saying &quot;Backup, girls. Backup, girls.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>learnedthelesson:</p>
<p>That&#8217;s right. Henry and Jim will be my backup girls. To keep the spotlight on me, I&#8217;ll keep saying &#8220;Backup, girls. Backup, girls.&#8221;
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		<title>By: learnthelesson</title>
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		<dc:creator>learnthelesson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 16:21:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Matt - so its settled then... you, Henry and Jim can all entertain us to your gay/straight rendition at the LF Party...  TOWANDOA!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Matt &#8211; so its settled then&#8230; you, Henry and Jim can all entertain us to your gay/straight rendition at the LF Party&#8230;  TOWANDOA!!
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 16:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>learnedthelesson and Jim:

&quot;I Will Survive&quot; is still big in any disco -- definitely gay, pretty much straight -- especially in Europe (go figure). Sort of one of those &quot;cross-over&quot; songs like &quot;It&#039;s Raining Men.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>learnedthelesson and Jim:</p>
<p>&#8220;I Will Survive&#8221; is still big in any disco &#8212; definitely gay, pretty much straight &#8212; especially in Europe (go figure). Sort of one of those &#8220;cross-over&#8221; songs like &#8220;It&#8217;s Raining Men.&#8221;
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