Comments on: Medication used to treat sociopathy/psychopathy

By: justabouthealed

justabouthealed — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 04:44:42 +0000

http://www.reuters.com/article.....NI20090807

Just so no one misses it, the above link is the second page, this is the first page. Thanks for the great article!!!

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By: PInow

PInow — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 04:24:57 +0000

http://www.reuters.com/article.....dChannel=0

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By: PInow

PInow — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 03:20:19 +0000

LOL Tilly.
Reading the posts from yesterday. Thank you to all who have shared kind words with me. Tilly, you just used a word I can relate to: Did anyone feel like they had a Psycho-PET? I mean, really… Sometimes, looking back I recall the feeling like he was a pet. He was so parasitic, but good for wagging, when I was around. It’s incredible how the Pet was out destroying, but home in time to wag his “front” tail in what was described in another post “sexual aggressive master act”. Incredible how I’d let it go on. well, I did not: I stumped my feet, I called on every saint, and it got to the point when I prayed I could no longer pray for him as a part of my family, and wondered why. I tried harder and harder, and then to total dismay I started having a daily drink to “take the stress off”, which I had never done before or since. Psycho = pet – can we pull them out like a bad tooth?

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By: Tilly

Tilly — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 03:13:11 +0000

Wish we could pull out the sociopath just as easy and toss him in the bin and be immediately free of pain !

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By: Tilly

Tilly — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 03:11:16 +0000

P.S. If you cancel your appointment I will twang you with my boomerang. Prayers for your 2nd daughter. xo

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By: Tilly

Tilly — Sun, 09 Aug 2009 03:10:06 +0000

ANEWLILY:
Yes thankyou, I have felt your prayers! And you are so right ANL…I HAVE HAD MY TWO TEETH PULLED OUT!!! And ever since I did NO MORE PAIN!!! (TOTALLY UNLIKE DEFENDING OURSELVES FROM A SOCIOPATH?PSYCHOPAT AYE LILY!!!LOL!)
And now i look like the angry raging monster i sometimes feel, so people will think twice about crossing me (ROTFLMAO)!
And I don’t have the thousands they want so I will be looking like this for quite awhile. God sure has a sense of humour…I wish I could bump into my exP dentist in a dark alley(shining a torch under my chin) now! (Rosa would like that one!)
And it is a relief to be out of the dating stakes completly. I intend on giving my P teacher a BIG SMILE tomorrow and see what comes pouring out of her mouth! lol!

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By: ANewLily

ANewLily — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 22:24:50 +0000

OxDrover, I just popped in to let you know that I, too, am so relieved that C’s biopsy turned out negative!

As you know, I just got “back” my second daughter, not physically yet, but emotionally, only to find out this morning that a mass has been found on her gallbladder. They think it is from the years of meds she’s taken for gluten intolerance but is a concern.

This morning she told me that an MRI will show more on Monday.

I am fighting the desire to cancel my own medical procedures scheduled for Tuesday and be ready to fly “home” if needed.

Tilly, I’ve been following your teeth problems, too. I hope you have felt my prayers. Abcesses are painful but I’ll bet you agree that the physical pain is easier to handle (but barely) than the emotional pain of living with/defending ourselves from an N/P/S, including your P teacher and friend!

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By: Tilly

Tilly — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 22:18:25 +0000

OXY:
TOWANDA! We beat the biopsy! AWESOME! xoxo(((OXY”S SON))).
I loved your analogy of the garden and the house and the cheese… you should write a fiction book Oxy, I wanted the story to go on forever!
Thankyou so much for being there Oxy, you have/are
helping me more than you will ever know.I wouldn’t be able to make it (as far as my P kids go) without you.oxxoxoxoxo

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By: OxDrover

OxDrover — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 14:31:02 +0000

Dear Erin,

Thank you for the story about your friend! That is wonderful, you know, I think the “shared experience” of someone we love’s death can be some of the most meaningful time to them and to us. My beloved stepfatehr and I shared his 18 month journey and he and I had some wonderful and close times. I still laugh about his jokes and his dry sense of humor and one-lines off the top of his head! It sounds like you share those same kinds of memories with your wonderful friend. those are memories that will comfort and warm you the rest of your life, and I know that having you there with him was benefical adn comforting fo rhim as well as for you.

Yes, I am glad lmy son’s biopsy turned out negative, I could see the relief in his eyes when he got the results. he was being stoic about it outwardly but I know he must have been worried about it inside. (He’s too much like me!!! LOL)

Thank all of you for your prayers, concerns and good wishes for my son about his biopsy. I am so fortunate to have him back alive and well from that nearly 8 yr. marriage-from-hell with his P X-wife. Not only back physically but emotionally as well.

Erin, I have been blessed by having several really CLOSE friends that have never never let me down, not many, I think a person is fortunate to have one or two of this kind of friend. these friends are there for you in good times and bad, and the more you share the stronger the bond grows. My best friend lives 7 hours from me, but we have mantained a CLOSE friendship in spite of that and visit and e mail and phone often and keep our friendship intact. We’ve been through the bad times for each other and the shared the good as well. there is nothing I wouldn’t do for her that was within my power. I KNOW that she had already done the same for me. Even though your friend is gone from your sight, he remains in your heart. My step father is as close to me now as he was when he was living and I can actually “ask him questions” about “what would you advise, daddy?” and if I sit quietly and LISTEN I can almost hear him telling me what to do. He was sharp and intuitive about people, and his advise was kind and firm and never bad. Sometimes I will dream about a problem and he will come to the dream and tell me the answer as if we had a visit in teh flesh. Those we love and who loved us are always with us. (((hugs)))) and God bless

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By: ErinBrockovich

ErinBrockovich — Sat, 08 Aug 2009 09:13:28 +0000

Eeekks….
whats going on here? It’s not posting the whole post>!!??
Anyways…..
My friend went heli skiing and came home and immediately had the surgery….he never really was the same from the surgery…..
BUT>…..he lived and did what he wanted. accepted the cards he was dealt with wisdom and a tenaciious fight.
He is my ispiration and I will always feel him close……I will always hear him chuckle when I overcome an asshole move from the S…..He loved hearing about what I was up to on my counter attacks…..he loved it, it inspired me to keep going.
He gave me fight! He gave me strength. I gave him a diversion from his own fight…..
I am so grateful I got to share the end result with him……he saw it full circle……from planning the wedding, child bearing, investments, houses, jobs, questioning and becoming aware of these behaviors….He gave me strength my whole adult life.
He was thrilled to hear about the last court date, he laughed at every statement. He said “good for you Erin, I knew you could do it, I am proud of how far you have come’.
Those words meant so much coming from him!
He was a GEM!!!! He knew the S and he “GOT IT”, he stuck up for me, he was there when I needed someone to be there, he was ther when I was sick, I was there when he got sick…..we shared a lot of life, love and laughter….sadness, strength and tears……
He was a man of honor, integrity and faithfullness.
He is my friend.
Hug your son close, I am so glad he will not experience that ugly journey!
XXOO

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