Comments on: Sociopaths and their smear campaigns http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/ Wake up to the danger of sociopaths Thu, 09 Sep 2010 06:28:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: tink3010 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-83927 tink3010 Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:28:44 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-83927 jazzy129....the comment of yours to say just be pleased is exactly as my mothers when tried to tell her my upset. "Oh well he is gone now dear" Its like emerging from a massive car crash and expect will be shell shocked for a long while yet. jazzy129….the comment of yours to say just be pleased is exactly as my mothers when tried to tell her my upset. “Oh well he is gone now dear” Its like emerging from a massive car crash and expect will be shell shocked for a long while yet.

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]]> By: tink3010 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-83926 tink3010 Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:23:28 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-83926 This is all so enlightening. Have just in last fortnight got out of a relationship with somebody I had lightheartedly suspected had many traits of sociopathy. However had not thought about too deeply. A couple of days ago when trawling the internet was amazed that his personality ticks just about every box. A traumatic ralationship for 4 years and had gone from a fun party girl to a bore constantly worrying why he did things? Friends left in droves. The ones he had not already caused hurt both physically or in a passive spiteful style. Having pushed his advances away this weekend on Sunday he rang my friends boyfriend to tell him I said in an argument that I had slept with them and their son and he was ringing them to warn them!!!!!!! (I had not answered one of the 42 calls received in two hours) I left still feeling outraged but extremely hurt somebody could lie about me that way. This website is so fantastic in enabling me to realise it was all a matter completely out of my hands prior to realising he really is a manipulating lying controlling silver tongued man who should have a public health warning tattooed on forehead. This is all so enlightening. Have just in last fortnight got out of a relationship with somebody I had lightheartedly suspected had many traits of sociopathy. However had not thought about too deeply. A couple of days ago when trawling the internet was amazed that his personality ticks just about every box. A traumatic ralationship for 4 years and had gone from a fun party girl to a bore constantly worrying why he did things? Friends left in droves. The ones he had not already caused hurt both physically or in a passive spiteful style. Having pushed his advances away this weekend on Sunday he rang my friends boyfriend to tell him I said in an argument that I had slept with them and their son and he was ringing them to warn them!!!!!!! (I had not answered one of the 42 calls received in two hours) I left still feeling outraged but extremely hurt somebody could lie about me that way. This website is so fantastic in enabling me to realise it was all a matter completely out of my hands prior to realising he really is a manipulating lying controlling silver tongued man who should have a public health warning tattooed on forehead.

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]]> By: blueskies http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79810 blueskies Sun, 20 Jun 2010 16:14:45 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79810 Hee!hheeeee! Ox Drover I like your curse!:)xx I am going to say it (to myself) everytime I get wrapped up in feeling crap about ED and the things she says and does:) Then say AAAhmen!..and spit on the floor and carry on with my day!:)xx He he! Brilliant! Hee!hheeeee! Ox Drover I like your curse!:)xx I am going to say it (to myself) everytime I get wrapped up in feeling crap about ED and the things she says and does:) Then say AAAhmen!..and spit on the floor and carry on with my day!:)xx He he! Brilliant!

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79799 OxDrover Sun, 20 Jun 2010 13:36:05 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79799 QUOTE: Jazzy "its a shock like jumping into a frigid New Hampshire stream, it akes everything away. You have to start all over again." WOW, Gal, that is such a great way of looking at things, like jumping into a COLD RIVER and oh, how it DOES take everything away!!!! Thank you for that quote I am going to remember that one! It is wonderful! I have two friends that I would love to have the lap band surgery for over weight, I know it is a difficult thing to be addicted to food. I'm "fat" but not like that, and I feel for them so much. That much over weight will shorten and complicate life! I'm glad your friend did that for herself and Glad you were there for her after her surgery! And glad you have her for a friend! Sounds like she needs some healing too from her childhood. Pox on her mother and may the fleas of a 1000 camels inhabit the arm pits of that woman and MAY SHE SHARE A ROOM AT THE NURSING HOME WITH HENRY'S MOTHER!!!! (how is THAT for a curse!?) QUOTE: Jazzy

“its a shock like jumping into a frigid New Hampshire stream, it akes everything away. You have to start all over again.”

WOW, Gal, that is such a great way of looking at things, like jumping into a COLD RIVER and oh, how it DOES take everything away!!!!

Thank you for that quote I am going to remember that one! It is wonderful!

I have two friends that I would love to have the lap band surgery for over weight, I know it is a difficult thing to be addicted to food. I’m “fat” but not like that, and I feel for them so much. That much over weight will shorten and complicate life! I’m glad your friend did that for herself and Glad you were there for her after her surgery!

And glad you have her for a friend! Sounds like she needs some healing too from her childhood. Pox on her mother and may the fleas of a 1000 camels inhabit the arm pits of that woman and MAY SHE SHARE A ROOM AT THE NURSING HOME WITH HENRY’S MOTHER!!!! (how is THAT for a curse!?)

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]]> By: jazzy129 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79777 jazzy129 Sun, 20 Jun 2010 03:57:27 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79777 bluejay...I know what you mean...I'm there with you. I honestly never knew such people existed in my 52 years. It's a shock like jumping into a frigid New Hampshire stream. it takes everything away. You have to start all over again. bluejay…I know what you mean…I’m there with you. I honestly never knew such people existed in my 52 years. It’s a shock like jumping into a frigid New Hampshire stream. it takes everything away. You have to start all over again.

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]]> By: jazzy129 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79775 jazzy129 Sun, 20 Jun 2010 03:49:55 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79775 Ha! Thanks, Oxdrover...she is a good gal. She is very loud (unlike me) and used to be a big gal before her stomach staple surgery....I was one of the 'caretakers' after the surgery...very hard on her and her wonderful hubby. He liked my cooking best! And I cook low fat! And, yes, I apologized up, down, and all around. She is a keeper, but she has had a tough life(she was the oldest...12...when Mom left and her Dad had cancer) and won't tolerate weakness in anything. She is what she is and I love her dearly. Ha! Thanks, Oxdrover…she is a good gal. She is very loud (unlike me) and used to be a big gal before her stomach staple surgery….I was one of the ‘caretakers’ after the surgery…very hard on her and her wonderful hubby. He liked my cooking best! And I cook low fat!

And, yes, I apologized up, down, and all around. She is a keeper, but she has had a tough life(she was the oldest…12…when Mom left and her Dad had cancer) and won’t tolerate weakness in anything. She is what she is and I love her dearly.

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79774 OxDrover Sun, 20 Jun 2010 03:31:16 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79774 Hang on to that friend, Jazzy, she had the caring and the back bone to stand up in your face and tell you you are WRONG! THAT IS A FRIEND! You treasure her! She has good instincts too. She's within her right to refuse to talk to you about him but if you haven't apologized to her you need to, get on your knees GF and kiss her feet She is a GOOD FRIEND! From now on she checks out your guys and if she doesn't like them, OUT THEY GO!!!!! I'M FOR HER!!! Tell her I said so!~!!! Hang on to that friend, Jazzy, she had the caring and the back bone to stand up in your face and tell you you are WRONG! THAT IS A FRIEND! You treasure her! She has good instincts too.

She’s within her right to refuse to talk to you about him but if you haven’t apologized to her you need to, get on your knees GF and kiss her feet She is a GOOD FRIEND!

From now on she checks out your guys and if she doesn’t like them, OUT THEY GO!!!!! I’M FOR HER!!! Tell her I said so!~!!!

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]]> By: bluejay http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79773 bluejay Sun, 20 Jun 2010 03:30:27 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79773 Unfortunately, they don't change, not even being able to recognize their own need for change. I get very frustrated and discouraged with the way things are in my life, wanting improvements NOW. This disorder is the pits. Take care. Unfortunately, they don’t change, not even being able to recognize their own need for change. I get very frustrated and discouraged with the way things are in my life, wanting improvements NOW. This disorder is the pits. Take care.

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]]> By: jazzy129 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79770 jazzy129 Sun, 20 Jun 2010 03:10:32 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79770 One of my best friends HATED...I mean HATED my ex-spath. I did not talk to her for months while we were still together. I thought he was misunderstood and I could help him change. After I kicked him out, she ranted on me....it's just her way. She still loves me dearly, but she refused to discuss him anymore after he was gone, no matter what i said. We get along great now, but she will not tolerate any mention of him. She's a pip, but doesn't understand what a sociopath can do. That's why I keep coming back here, I guess. One of my best friends HATED…I mean HATED my ex-spath. I did not talk to her for months while we were still together. I thought he was misunderstood and I could help him change. After I kicked him out, she ranted on me….it’s just her way. She still loves me dearly, but she refused to discuss him anymore after he was gone, no matter what i said. We get along great now, but she will not tolerate any mention of him.

She’s a pip, but doesn’t understand what a sociopath can do. That’s why I keep coming back here, I guess.

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]]> By: bluejay http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/comment-page-4/#comment-79769 bluejay Sun, 20 Jun 2010 03:07:58 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/01/07/sociopaths-and-their-smear-campaigns/#comment-79769 jazzy129, It is devastating to know that someone that you trusted betrayed you in so many awful, hurtful ways, running you over (without looking back). Some how we have to find the strength to go on, get into a more positive mode of thinking, existing...it's hard to do. Hopefully, in time everyday living will be better for you. jazzy129,

It is devastating to know that someone that you trusted betrayed you in so many awful, hurtful ways, running you over (without looking back). Some how we have to find the strength to go on, get into a more positive mode of thinking, existing…it’s hard to do. Hopefully, in time everyday living will be better for you.

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