Comments on: Children of sociopaths are twice cursed

By: bluejay

bluejay — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 17:49:13 +0000

ErinBrock,

Ditto! Yeh, when you have a financially irresponisble sociopathic partner who spends money on who knows what, plenty of times behind your back, you’re left with very little. By the time you wake up to his/her shenanigans (realizing that you’ve been lied to and that money has indeed been stolen), you’re in the “poor house.” One partner is frugal, the other one is NOT, making living more difficult than it should be.

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By: ErinBrock

ErinBrock — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 16:53:38 +0000

Troubledteens;
So…..when your destroyed by one sociopathic parent and your left holding the ‘bag’ of one angry teenager……
HOW IN THE HELL DOES ONE AFFORD YOUR PROGRAMS?

These are for ‘designer’ kids with rich parents able to spend that sort of money to send Jr off….

Typically…..that is NOT the sort of Parent who comes to LF….we have been financially destroyed!!!!!

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By: troubledteens

troubledteens — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 07:44:54 +0000

Lack of a conscience makes the kids and teenagers out of control. There may be various reasons and issues behind the irresponsible behavior of teens but extended care and moral support can help defiant kids to overcome all types of stressing issues. Emotional, mental and psychological disorders cause depression and restlessness in children which make the difficult to understand. Parenting and counseling programs are effective in dealing with harassing issues of adolescents.
http://www.troubledteens.net/P.....agers.html

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By: banana

banana — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 14:03:14 +0000

Liane,

I wrote to you under Steve’s article, but I just remembered and wanted to ask you about spanking…it doesn’t typically hurt me son because he is wearing diapers, but when he hits his cousin repeatly, when asked to stop, and I thereofre spank him he smiles. This disturbs me.

he also does thins thing some times where he is scolded so he does what i call the kiss and make up, then will repeat the unwanted behavior, sometimes for another scholding and another kiss and make up.

What are your thoughts on this.

BTW I have a lot of hope for my son as he is a really adorable, kind, playfull, and affectionate boy 90% of the time.

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By: ErinBrock

ErinBrock — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 08:05:00 +0000

GO GEM!!!!!!

Happy FREEDOM DARLEN!!!!

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By: geminigirl

geminigirl — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 07:52:46 +0000

EB, Thank you darling for those kind words! Yea your right, we need to be careful of these trolls. Im feeling a lot more positive these days, but I swing a bit from sad to happy to energetic to tired out, I guess its normal, after all these spaths were in our lives fora long time, its like withdrawal from toxic drugs, I suppose! Its still the hardest thing Ive EVEr had to do in my life, to go total NC with my adult spath daughters. {well, only one really as the younger one, the control freak, hasnt allowed me to see her or her kids in 17 years.} Now the boots on the other foot , as I dont wish to see the little bitch again, I cant stand her. She is snobby, haughty, bossy, money hungry, controlling,cruel,and everyone dances to her tune, NOT ME anymore!!She will be 44 on the 25th of this Month, I plan to buy some flowers for ME, not for her, she doesnt deserve any!! Much Love to you and everyone I love, Oxy, hens, witty, one step,ALL of you ROCK!!! {{HUGS!!}}} Gem.XXXX

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By: ErinBrock

ErinBrock — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 06:50:38 +0000

Gem:
No worries…don’t know why it bounced? It’s a valid address…..
There needs to be anonimity for our own safety….remember the web is world wide…..and like oxy said….ya just never know who is lurking….

I know s #2 was hacking into systems through email…..just an example of how dangerous these dipshits can be…
He even hacked into the courts computer…..pretty ballsy!

So…..think smart and protect yourself darlen!

Have a wonderful weekend with your cherished Iranian friends Mama!!!

XXOO
EB

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By: geminigirl

geminigirl — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 06:21:12 +0000

OK, Oxy, darling, point taken!
How are you going by the way? Im a bit like you, good some days, and other days Im overwhelmed by sadness anda sense of “what was it all for,” raising two lovely little girls to have them turn into spaths!
But most days Im doing OK, and trying to move on with my life. Sometimes it seems that everyone I know, practically is either a spath,a bully, a control freak or a useror parasite,,and Ive had to cut a lot of people out of my life, I even had to give up the volunteer job which I enjoyed, as the woman who runs it is a control freak, a bully, and her mood swings were not doing me any good at all.So, back to the drawing board. I have MUCh to be thankful to God for, my loving husband, our lovely Iranian “kids”., {who are coming to lunch next Sunday,– great!!As you said and its so true, when you “draw a line in the sand” and insist on certain behaviours, you have to be prepared for the relationship,{or relationshit!} not to survive, if the spath wont play ball. I havent had any contact with d since the beginning of June last year, and I havent seen her since Dec. 8th, 08.Im still reeling from the shock of finding out she embezzled,{stole<} A$62,000, and was "forgiven" A$50,000 of this amount! It explains to me now why she lost a top job witha top Nature mag, she had her own office, surrounded by bushland, her own secretary, she was the editor, and worked on her kids mag at the same timeWhen the nature Mag was taken over by new management, they ran an audit, and discovered she'd put the $62,000 thru their accounts, and then siphoned it off into her own bank balance..Now she is largely unemployed, flat sitting fo r a girlfriend, doing articles for various publications. she tells people she isa Journalist, which she is NOT. she has no paper qualifications of any kind. The years my ex and I hoped shed be at Uni, were spent in a squat with her feral, hippy mates.Like your son, she seemed to crave the company of her social and intellectual inferiors, who looked up to her, and stroked her ego.She will be 46 in a few months , and I wonder where shell end up when shes run out of suckers to con.Im looking forward to another trip to bonny Scotland in may, where I still have a few old and dear friends.
Take care, Much Love, Gem.XX
Temps have been AWFUL, up to 40 deg.C, and 100% humidity, but today is much cooler, thank God. Weve hada lot of tropical type rain too.

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By: OxDrover

OxDrover — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 05:08:04 +0000

Dear Gem,

Donna does not, for SAFETY reasons, want us to post our personal e mails on the BLOG. She is absolutely right in that as well, remember that there are trolls who come here from time to time.

My e mail addy that I have had for years, unfortunately leads back to my home address and web page for my farm, so I have to be very particular how it gets out there.

I am glad that you corresponded with Lily, and I know it meant so much to her, but please be careful, the wonderful SAFETY that we feel here at LF can become a danger if we are not careful! Love Oxy

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By: geminigirl

geminigirl — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 02:10:22 +0000

Eb, just wanted to let you know that I tried to email the Xmas Pics to you, but your address bounced back. Also, Donna was cross with me for giving my email address and she removed it.I thought it was OK if we were introduced by Donna.Not sure where to go from here.Im GLAD that I exchanged my email and street addresses with NewLily, as it enabled us to correspond before her op and subsequent death and Im also glad I mailed her the bead necklace and scarf, which gave her some pleasure, God knows she had little enough love in her life, except the loving messages from her friends on LF. If you ask Donna if you can email ne again and give me your postal address I can mail the pics to you. Much Love, Gem.XX

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