Comments on: Sociopaths don’t respond to punishment http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/ Wake up to the danger of sociopaths Wed, 08 Feb 2012 07:17:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76747 OxDrover Fri, 21 May 2010 18:32:41 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76747 Dear Peggy, I think I will go down and tell them I am a GENERAL and see if they willl start sending me a pay check, I could sure use the money! I can photoshop some really great photos of me flying a fighter jet and in combat that should show them my heroism in all the wars I've fought in! LOL LOL ROTFLMAO I will admit that this kid has guts, and probably a lot of other psychopathic traits as well. No one but an honest to gosh psychopath would try that stunt! LOL ROTFLMAO Whew, got my belly laugh for the day---heck, the WEEK! Dear Peggy,

I think I will go down and tell them I am a GENERAL and see if they willl start sending me a pay check, I could sure use the money! I can photoshop some really great photos of me flying a fighter jet and in combat that should show them my heroism in all the wars I’ve fought in! LOL LOL ROTFLMAO

I will admit that this kid has guts, and probably a lot of other psychopathic traits as well. No one but an honest to gosh psychopath would try that stunt! LOL ROTFLMAO Whew, got my belly laugh for the day—heck, the WEEK!

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]]> By: peggywhoever http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76745 peggywhoever Fri, 21 May 2010 18:17:20 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76745 Wow, I'm glad to see that a good article is being recycled! I found this link interesting regarding a man posing as an Army officer...looks like a sociopath to me! http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_army_infiltrator Wow, I’m glad to see that a good article is being recycled! I found this link interesting regarding a man posing as an Army officer…looks like a sociopath to me!

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_army_infiltrator

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]]> By: bluejay http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76744 bluejay Fri, 21 May 2010 18:00:41 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76744 Buttons, You bet, I'll watch out for snakes, having seen black ones in the past here and at my old house that was in the city. I try to keep away from slithery things. You keep on your toes too, being careful around any and all kinds of snakes (and that includes people). Buttons,

You bet, I’ll watch out for snakes, having seen black ones in the past here and at my old house that was in the city. I try to keep away from slithery things. You keep on your toes too, being careful around any and all kinds of snakes (and that includes people).

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]]> By: Buttons http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76743 Buttons Fri, 21 May 2010 17:40:38 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76743 Bluejay, watch out for those copperheads! I used to live in VA, too.....where I grew up, we had cottonmouths AND copperheads. I wouldn't know one from the other if they came up to shake my hand. Wait a sed.......they have no hands.... Bluejay, watch out for those copperheads! I used to live in VA, too…..where I grew up, we had cottonmouths AND copperheads. I wouldn’t know one from the other if they came up to shake my hand. Wait a sed…….they have no hands….

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]]> By: bluejay http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76741 bluejay Fri, 21 May 2010 17:34:24 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76741 OxDrover, I live in the country (my house is on land that was once a dairy farm), here in Virginia. When I read your response, I thought about the Unabomber, how he lived in the wilderness. I wouldn't know how to catch a snake, nor would I want to, only if I had to. Snakes are not my favorite reptile. Hopefully, your snake will slither far, far away, no more to return to you. I have told myself that my h-spath hasn't totally destroyed me (I'm still around), but he really has done some heavy-duty damage. I have hope for the future, just needing to make some decisions and have them work out in my favor. OxDrover,

I live in the country (my house is on land that was once a dairy farm), here in Virginia. When I read your response, I thought about the Unabomber, how he lived in the wilderness. I wouldn’t know how to catch a snake, nor would I want to, only if I had to. Snakes are not my favorite reptile. Hopefully, your snake will slither far, far away, no more to return to you. I have told myself that my h-spath hasn’t totally destroyed me (I’m still around), but he really has done some heavy-duty damage. I have hope for the future, just needing to make some decisions and have them work out in my favor.

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76679 OxDrover Fri, 21 May 2010 03:20:36 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76679 Dear Bluejay, I do live in the WILDERNESS, but you know, there are things even in the wilderness that are POISON, my flower garden is harboring a big water moccocin I wasn't quick enough to kill before it slithered off into the flowers...couldn't find it when I had a weapon....LOL Dear Bluejay, I do live in the WILDERNESS, but you know, there are things even in the wilderness that are POISON, my flower garden is harboring a big water moccocin I wasn’t quick enough to kill before it slithered off into the flowers…couldn’t find it when I had a weapon….LOL

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]]> By: bluejay http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76671 bluejay Fri, 21 May 2010 01:04:14 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76671 OxDrover, Good analogy, they are like suicide bombers, destroying themselves and everyone else in the path of destruction. I remember asking my h-spath, "doesn't it bother you that you've destroyed my life?", to which he replied, "no, it's the way you talk to me" or "you worry me too much." What I recently figured out is that all the garbage that they pull (eg. lying, stealing, etc.), well, it's nothing personal in their mindset. That's why he genuinely seems flummoxed by my being exasperated, ticked off with him over the countless incidents of nuttiness. People like this can make you want to go live in the wilderness and be a hermit, protecting yourself from any more hurt. OxDrover,

Good analogy, they are like suicide bombers, destroying themselves and everyone else in the path of destruction. I remember asking my h-spath, “doesn’t it bother you that you’ve destroyed my life?”, to which he replied, “no, it’s the way you talk to me” or “you worry me too much.” What I recently figured out is that all the garbage that they pull (eg. lying, stealing, etc.), well, it’s nothing personal in their mindset. That’s why he genuinely seems flummoxed by my being exasperated, ticked off with him over the countless incidents of nuttiness. People like this can make you want to go live in the wilderness and be a hermit, protecting yourself from any more hurt.

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76668 OxDrover Thu, 20 May 2010 23:35:39 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76668 Dear Bluejay, Yep, there is no way we can save them from themselves, and the worst part is that they are like a suicide bomber, they destroy themselves but they take everyone in the neighborhoood with them! What a waste! Not only for themselves but for those even close to them that get hit with the flying debris. As they pull the trigger that destroys themselves they shout "See, I told you you couldn't control me!" BOOM! What a way to prove your point! DUH! Some way to "win" but that is all they really care about is getting their own way. Dear Bluejay,

Yep, there is no way we can save them from themselves, and the worst part is that they are like a suicide bomber, they destroy themselves but they take everyone in the neighborhoood with them! What a waste! Not only for themselves but for those even close to them that get hit with the flying debris.

As they pull the trigger that destroys themselves they shout “See, I told you you couldn’t control me!” BOOM! What a way to prove your point! DUH! Some way to “win” but that is all they really care about is getting their own way.

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]]> By: bluejay http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76667 bluejay Thu, 20 May 2010 23:27:52 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76667 I can put myself in other people's shoes, grasping why they "do what they do," having compassion, but truthfully, I am royally p.o.'d that this disorder has hit my life. I have a lot of patience, but I have reached my tolerance level for suffering, not wanting to have any more. I have to take a mental break from the chit (as others say). I remember telling my therapist (a few months ago) that if you have a spath in your life, there is no way that you can live your life without worrying, because of the bombs that drop. It's a vicious cycle because you want to control the disordered person, preventing him/her from screwing up, but you can't do so. My h-spath doesn't want anyone's help, guidance, direction - he wants to do things his way, even if it leads to disaster. I figured out that he dislikes being corrected, ignoring common sense, being a rule breaker. Ah, I am going to get out of the ditch. These are things that I have figured out about the spath while separated from him. I can put myself in other people’s shoes, grasping why they “do what they do,” having compassion, but truthfully, I am royally p.o.’d that this disorder has hit my life. I have a lot of patience, but I have reached my tolerance level for suffering, not wanting to have any more. I have to take a mental break from the chit (as others say). I remember telling my therapist (a few months ago) that if you have a spath in your life, there is no way that you can live your life without worrying, because of the bombs that drop. It’s a vicious cycle because you want to control the disordered person, preventing him/her from screwing up, but you can’t do so. My h-spath doesn’t want anyone’s help, guidance, direction – he wants to do things his way, even if it leads to disaster. I figured out that he dislikes being corrected, ignoring common sense, being a rule breaker. Ah, I am going to get out of the ditch. These are things that I have figured out about the spath while separated from him.

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]]> By: OxDrover http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/comment-page-1/#comment-76665 OxDrover Thu, 20 May 2010 22:13:47 +0000 http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2006/11/17/sociopaths-dont-respond-to-punishment/#comment-76665 Dear Silver, My little Jack Russell Terrier was barking this afternoon, and I looked out the window to see what he was barking at and it just appeared to be a spot on the grass, so I ran out and sure enoug hit was a NASTY looking water moccocin so I shooed the dog away and went to get an implement of destruction (should have had my gun with me the first time) but by the time I got there I saw it slither off into the dense folage of my plantings around the tree and couldn't get it to show its ugly head again. So just remember even the GARDEN OF EDEN had its snake, so be careful where you put your hand, and make sure nothing is hiding among the flowers. I realize that when I plant flowers I give the snakes a place to hide, but I'd rather have the flowers than barren earth which would expose the snakes better! It seems that snakes like to hide where the flowers are the most beautiful and we are most off our guard. But I'm not going to let that slit-eyed pit viper take away the joy of my yard! Of my garden! Dear Silver,

My little Jack Russell Terrier was barking this afternoon, and I looked out the window to see what he was barking at and it just appeared to be a spot on the grass, so I ran out and sure enoug hit was a NASTY looking water moccocin so I shooed the dog away and went to get an implement of destruction (should have had my gun with me the first time) but by the time I got there I saw it slither off into the dense folage of my plantings around the tree and couldn’t get it to show its ugly head again.

So just remember even the GARDEN OF EDEN had its snake, so be careful where you put your hand, and make sure nothing is hiding among the flowers. I realize that when I plant flowers I give the snakes a place to hide, but I’d rather have the flowers than barren earth which would expose the snakes better! It seems that snakes like to hide where the flowers are the most beautiful and we are most off our guard.

But I’m not going to let that slit-eyed pit viper take away the joy of my yard! Of my garden!

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