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LETTER TO LOVEFRAUD: I lost my marriage, my children, my job and my home

| September 3, 2015 | 0 Comments

Editor’s note: Lovefraud received the following email from a woman who calls herself “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend.”

My story began in high school where we started dating. We were both at the end of our junior year and began dating as summer was beginning. It started off fantastic; I mean that’s why I stayed to get back those first few weeks of our relationship.

LETTER TO LOVEFRAUD: He told me I would get addicted to him

| September 2, 2015 | 10 Comments

Editor’s note: Lovefraud received several emails from a reader who posts as “bluedolphin.” Her emails have been combined into the story below. My comments follow the story.

Well, I am feeling really bad about a situation I have had with a guy since 6 months ago.

I met him over the Internet and he is from another country (both of us in Europe though). We talked about travelling and I told him how I would like to visit the area he lives and he quickly told me to jump in a plane and visit him there, which I thought was weird at such an early stage. Anyway, we started talking on Skype and this was in February.

History buff believes Philadelphia serial killer may have been Jack the Ripper

| September 1, 2015 | 2 Comments

Jack the Ripper

A computer-generated image of Jack the Ripper, left, resembles a photo of H.H. Holmes, right.

H. H. Holmes killed at least 27 people — and possibly many more — before he was hanged in a Philadelphia prison in 1896, according to a story in the Philadelphia Inquirer.

Before coming to Philadelphia, Holmes built a hotel in Chicago now known as “The Murder Castle.” It was equipped with secret tunnels and staircases, gas chambers and more devices for torture and death.

Mark Potts, a history buff from Berks County, Pennsylvania, speculates that Holmes may have also been “Jack the Ripper,” who murdered five prostitutes in London in 1888.

Pets and recovery from sociopaths

| August 31, 2015 | 8 Comments

Cade and Beau

Our visiting dog, Cade, left, reminds me of Beau, right.

For the first time in 12 years, we’ve had a dog in the house. Terry and I have been watching our nephew’s dog while he and his parents are on vacation.

The dog, Cade, is a frisky 15-month-old mix. I don’t know what breeds are in the mix, but Cade looks a lot like Beau, the dog I had while married to the sociopath — and the dog who kept me company as I recovered from my ex-husband’s destruction.

I’ve been having flashbacks.

How to protect yourself online

| August 29, 2015 | 1 Comments

The Internet is now an integral part of our lives, so it’s important to know how to protect ourselves online.

The U.S.government has created a great website, OnGuardOnline.gov, with all kinds of information on exactly how to do that. Lovefraud strongly recommends that you take a look at it — watch the videos and read some articles with great tips for staying safe. Here are a few good ones:

Common online scams

Computer security

Using IP cameras safely

Resource provided by a Lovefraud reader




Maintaining No Contact with a Sociopath

| August 28, 2015 | 21 Comments

Boundaries?  I Don’t Know What Those Are

It’s amazing how even after years and months go by of you making it perfectly clear what kind of contact you want with the sociopath, they don’t reciprocate your boundaries.  I think it’s just mind boggling over and over again in my mind that this concept of boundaries is so foreign to them, and they have no means, let alone intentions, of adhering to them.

Neurosurgeon Christopher Duntsch charged with intentionally botching surgeries, causing paralysis and death

| August 27, 2015 | 0 Comments

Christopher Duntsch

Christopher Duntsch

Four people were severely injured and two people died after being operated on by Christopher Duntsch, a neurosurgeon from Dallas, Texas.

Duntsch has been charged with five counts of aggravated assault for allegedly botching spinal surgeries, and one count of injuring an elderly person. Authorities are investigating at least 10 more injuries.

“I am ready to leave the love and kindness and goodness and patience that I mix with everything else that I am and become a cold blooded killer,” Duntsch said in an email sent to an employee on Dec. 11, 2011. The email was presented as evidence at a recent bail hearing. The doctor was denied a reduction of his $600,000 bail.

LETTER TO LOVEFRAUD: The ride on the sociocrazytrain was painful, but I don’t regret it

| August 26, 2015 | 10 Comments

Editor’s note: Lovefraud received the following email from a reader whom we’ll call Roseann.

I just wanted to thank you for developing the Lovefraud site, sharing your experience and writing your books. I have read both.

The books and your site have helped me tremendously, not only initially when I needed to understand what was happening, during the no contact time and even now, when he’s long gone. It helps me to remember who I was back then and to see whom I am now and I’m pleased with my progress and the choices I made.

Cutting contact

Possible serial killer in Chillicothe, Ohio

| August 25, 2015 | 0 Comments

4 women from Chillicothe found dead

The four women found dead are, from left, Tameka Lynch, Shasta Himelrick, Timberly Claytor and Tiffany Sayre. (Chillicothe Police Department)

Four women from the small southern Ohio town of Chillicothe have turned up dead since May, 2014. Two other women are missing.

All of the dead women worked as escorts and are believed to have known each other, prompting the community to fear a serial killer who targets prostitutes is on the loose.

At the end of July, an escort in Charleston, West Virginia, shot and killed Neal Falls, 45, who tried to choke her, using his own gun. Investigators found several axes, a shovel, bleach, handcuffs, knives and a machete in his car. They called it a “kill kit.”

Sociopaths and their multiple simultaneous manipulation strategies

| August 24, 2015 | 21 Comments

Unhappy-couple-breaking-up sizedLovefraud received the following question from a reader:

My father was a nut job and so was my husband and now I am dating one … a psychopath. I just had this question …

Do these men act like they do not want you around and push you away and make you feel so sad for them … making you feel like you failed them somehow … never do enough … and then suddenly you find yourself begging them to show you how much better you can do for them …?

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