This post refers to spiritual concepts. Please read Lovefraud’s statement on Spiritual Recovery.
My first book is entitled, Love Fraud — how marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan.
I imagine that for many of you, your reaction to this title is, “Huh?”
God is good, right? The Universe is supposed to support us, right? So how can there possibly be anything spiritual about having your life trampled by a sociopath?
Believe me, as I was in the midst of the struggle, I asked those questions. Except in my pleadings with my Higher Power, I wasn’t so polite.
As you can see from my wedding video, I was well and truly duped into marrying James Montgomery. He presented himself as a man who was smitten with me, who thought the world of me, who would offer me an opportunity to “live in the lap of luxury.”