A Lovefraud reader who goes by the name “new_day” knows the next target her sociopathic ex has lined up.
New_day and the sociopath divorced when their son was one year old. He then left the next girlfriend before their baby’s first birthday. He just proposed to the current girlfriend.
It really bothers new_day to sit back and watch. She wants to warn the woman, but doesn’t dare, because then she will be back in the drama.
Here’s what new_day would like to say to her ex-husband’s next target:
Do you catch yourself wondering why he tells those little white lies; I mean about things that aren’t even worth lying about? Or why he is so secretive about things that aren’t even worth lying about? Or why he is so secretive about his friends, his plans, his day, his family, his phone or his computer? You tell him everything about yourself and he just doesn’t have much to share.
Then, just when you have a moment of doubt cross your mind, he sweeps you off your feet and showers you with affection. He makes you feel like your relationship together is so unique and special. It is more meaningful than any he’d been in before he met you. Finally, you found love!! You found the one!!!
Those past relationships of his probably didn’t work out because they weren’t the right woman for him, but You are!
He promises you the world!
He is not actively parenting those kids of his due to no fault of his own.
The credit card debt? The financial obligations? Those aren’t nearly as important as the next big purchase, the next cruise, or even the next good time. Life is a party and no woman or child will ever keep him from his life of adventure.
If you do become boring in his eyes, or no longer useful to him, you will be discarded like yesterday’s news. He will make you realize that you were being used your entire time together.
You will find out that he wasn’t even faithful to you since day one. The pain in your heart and that sucker punch of betrayal will be unbearable. The more you try to understand what has happened to your life, the more you learn that you were the victim of his game.
He never loved you. He doesn’t care about anyone but himself. All he does is lie, cheat and steal from those who are closest to him, or complete strangers. It doesn’t matter who you are. If there is an opportunity to benefit himself in some way, he will take it.
He has no emotions.
I’m sorry that you had to cross his path. I wish someone would have warned me but they didn’t.
Get out now.
Let him move on to the next one.
She’s probably already lined up.
What do you think?