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Save 10% when you buy 2 or more books in the Lovefraud Store

If you’re reading Lovefraud, you probably found us because you were looking for information about sociopaths. In addition to our web content, Lovefraud offers recommended books in the Lovefraud store.

Now, save 10% when you buy multiple books—any titles you want. Also, shipping for two books costs the same as shipping for one book, so you save money there as well. All orders go out via U.S. Priority Mail, generally by the next day.

If you are planning on reading any of these books, please buy them from Lovefraud. Your purchase helps defray the costs of running this website, which are substantial and are not covered by the Google ads. Available books include:

Without Conscience
The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us, by Robert D. Hare, Ph.D.

Without Conscience is the seminal description of the psychopathic personality (referred to as sociopaths on Lovefraud). Dr. Robert Hare developed the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised, which is the best tool for diagnosing the personality disorder. The checklist from Lovefraud’s Key Symptoms of a Psychopath is drawn from this book—it’s important to read the full explanations.

Getting It Through My Thick Skull
Why I Stayed, What I Learned, and What Millions of People Involved with Sociopaths Need to Know, by Mary Jo Buttafuoco

After 17 years, Mary Jo Buttafuoco finally tells her story. In 1992, she was shot in the head by Amy Fisher, the “Long Island Lolita,” who was having an affair with her husband, Joey Buttafuoco. The first words of the book are, “Joey Buttafuoco is a sociopath.” Then Mary Jo reveals why her husband’s behavior identifies him a sociopath, how her marriage affected her, and how she escaped from the fog.

Trading Places
The true story of how Natalie Hutchison, winner of Trading Places 2006, turned her life around after a lifetime of abuse, by Natalie Hutchison and Mary Turner Thomson

At Lovefraud, we often talk about how childhood trauma makes us susceptible to abuse later in life. Trading Places shows exactly how it happens. Natalie describes what she experienced with her family of origin, and then you see how the emotional injuries she carried play out. But this is a story with a happy ending—Natalie overcomes her past, rebuilds her life, and gains national recognition for her achievements.

The Betrayal Bond
Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships, By Patrick J. Carnes, Ph.D.

Does it seem like you just go from one abusive relationship to another? If this describes your life, you may be suffering from a betrayal bond. This is a highly addictive attachment to someone who has hurt you. But even if that particular person is no longer in your life, the effects continue, because to you, an abusive relationship feels normal. This book explains how to recognize and break betrayal bonds.

The Gift of Betrayal
How to Heal Your Life When Your World Explodes, by Eve A. Wood, M.D.

Anyone—even a practicing psychiatrist who writes motivational books—can experience betrayal. The author, Eve A. Wood, M.D., was married to a man who sounds like a sociopath. When everything fell apart, she went through the same devastation that many of us have gone through. Then she wrote the book that she wished was available at the time. It offers excellent advice for recovering from betrayal and rebuilding your life.

Just Like His Father?
A Guide to Overcoming Your Child’s Genetic Connection to Antisocial Behavior, Addiction and ADHD, by Liane J. Leedom, M.D.

If you’ve had a child with a sociopath, you must read this book. Written by Lovefraud author Dr. Liane Leedom, it is the only book available that specifically addresses how to best raise children who carry a genetic risk of antisocial behavior, addiction and ADHD. Parenting can make a difference in whether these risks grow into disorders. Do not wait. The sooner you start—even when your child is an infant—the better your chance of success.

Overcoming the Devastation of Legal Abuse Syndrome
Warning: Protracted litigation can be hazardous to your health, by Karin Huffer, M.S., M.F.T.

Do not let the title of this book fool you. Yes, the legal system often adds insult to our injuries by allowing the sociopaths to get away with their predatory behavior. Inappropriate and outrageous responses on the part of those who are supposed to protect us can affect us deeply. But Legal Abuse Syndrome is more than a guidebook for dealing with court battles. It offers eight steps to recovery for blaming appropriately so we can heal, whether we’re involved in legal actions or not.

Hi Gorgeous!
Starry Eyes and Toxic Lies, by Melissa K. Dean

She met him on the Internet. He told her stories designed to tug at her heartstrings and generate sympathy. It worked. Melissa married the guy, and then slowly found herself exploited—financially, emotionally and sexually. Reasoning didn’t work. Being supportive didn’t work. Eventually, Melissa realized that in order to save herself, she had to escape.

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  1. justabouthealed says:

    Just wanted to comment again on how useful the Betrayal Bond Book has been for me.

    Was re-reading it today and was reminded that “blaming anger” , whether directed at yourself or at the P keeps us stuck. Much better is “healthy anger” which express limitatations….what is acceptable and what is not….both for ourselves and others.

    I got stuck for awhile on “is he or isn’t he a P? Is he a good guy or a bad guy”. Steve’s blog on radar got me over that. It reminded me that the real question is he good FOR ME? or bad FOR ME? THAT question is real easy to answer! Then I got stuck on “Who is to, I realize that is the wrong question too. The right question is what is unacceptable behavior? That too is easier to answer! What will I no longer accept from others? What will I no longer accept in myself?

    Reading Betrayal Bonds can make you realize vulnerabilities that P’s can exploit. As the book says, anyone can get caught in a betrayal bond. But there are things that make it easier for that to happen. I had to say “Bingo, bingo, bingo” to just about everything in that book!

    Understanding what past traumas have done to you can actually make you feel better about yourself, or it did me. As in “Well, no wonder I did x” and “Well, THAT explains why I felt like that!”

    I reread and redo the exercises in that book about every few months and I keep learning more.



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  2. justabouthealed says:

    I meant to write I got stuck on “Who is to blame” . Left out the word blame.Which I should have all along. LOL!



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